niceguy27 Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 I posted on here a few times. My girl and I are in the middle of some time apart. She needs to know why her feelings for me change sometimes daily..(read previous posts). Anyway, she moved out a month ago to be on her own but we were still together and she had a lot of things at the house (whole room full of clothes). I have since boxed up almost all of "our" memories (cards, pictures, candles, etc) and gave those to her. I kept some of it. I also have boxed up her bathroom stuff and have it in a couple boxes in the living room. Should I tell her she has to get those out asap or just wait a little bit till we talk again in a week or two and go from there?
Lyssa Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 She needs to know why her feelings for you change daily - sometimes, that is.. So for her to do that, she should be on her own (which she already is) and think about it without you interfering. So let her have her stuff back! I didn't read your previous posts - just saw this one and thought I'd give my 2 cents. Anyway, since you've already packed her stuff, I reckon you're ready to move on? Or are you giving her time to think? Do you want that or feel like you should go out and have fun?
Author niceguy27 Posted September 1, 2007 Author Posted September 1, 2007 ok. we are meeting in a week to discuss things. We have been apart for 2 weeks are meeting then to figure out if/what path we take next.
Author niceguy27 Posted September 1, 2007 Author Posted September 1, 2007 oh no. i want us to work real bad. Thats the dilemna. If I push her to get her stuff out, does that make her think "oh easy. He doesnt want to wait for me." Or if I dont push her on it and let her come, I take the risk of being walked on.
Woggle Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 If you tell her she has a week she will think you are moving on and she will respect you more which is a good thing since respect is at the core of a woman's attraction to a man. Once a woman sees you are okay without her her interest level will go up.
Author niceguy27 Posted September 1, 2007 Author Posted September 1, 2007 so do i wait till we meet again next week or call her today and tell her she can get them out this weekend as I am going out of town for a couple days?
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