Donza Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 Its been nearly 2.5 months NC, and 3.5 months since we split up. I have not seen her since. But everytime i go out with mates i am kinda ok. I make an effort to meet other women and i have even been asked out a few times. But yet i still miss her. I realise now, that i would have liked to remain friends with her.. Will it ever go away?
Je Ne Regrette Rien Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 It will ease off. I'm sorry Donza, I'm not familiar with your situation. Is it not a possibility that in time you could build a friendship or would you/she not want to pursue that? Its natural to miss someone who was such a big part of your life. Its good you are moving on and you sound upbeat about being out with your friends and getting hit on by other women. It will get better, missing an ex-partner somehow (after time) metamorphises into having fond memories and happy thoughts (in relationships that ended amicably). 3 months isn't too long, in my experience, it takes about a year to get them out of your constant thoughts, depending on how long the relationship was. It then goes to triggers, like a song on the radio that makes you think of her. And after time, they just pop into your head from time to time but the missing-feeling has gone
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