fearofwomen Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 i always fear to talk to women my friends just tell me ot man up and stuff but i cant its just messed i can't talk to ppl at work at parties i dont know what to say or anything anyone know how u play hard to get and how to face the fear of girls and meeting new people .
Tony T Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 To start off with, women love men who use periods after each sentence, who capitalize the first word in each sentence and who generally subscribe to excellent grammar, spelling and punctuation practices.
Reckless Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 (in case the girl in question doesn't ask you to write her a note) Women are just people. The first thing you need to do is hang out in mixed groups with friends of friends, cousins, neighbours... don't try and "hit" on anyone but just try and talk to girls and eventually you'll see what makes them tick. Generally speaking people (men and especially women) like to talk about themselves so just asking questions and looking interested should do the trick. You don't have to say much, just "yeah.. wow, that's interesting" between questions. Maybe learn to pay a few compliments, nothing creepy just, general stuff for girls like 'you seem like you know a lot about ... [whatever the subject they're interested in]" I know it's easy to say relax but really you need to just learn to hang out and appreciate people for what they are. The rest will follow. Reckless
ftheunion Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 No offense, but I think you are gettin the yankee response to this. I am DEFINATELY intimidated by women. I used to be scared of them. I still get nervouse sometimes, I at least feel uncomfortable when walking by a group of them that are around my age. We ain't here to bother them. Sometimes they get offended if they don't know you and you make a move. They don't talk to guys they don't like either. They always hang around the hot/buff guys. Its that sexual selection and evolutionary stuff. I ain't scared to talk to them, I just might be nervous. I don't talk to them cause they are so complicated and don't want a boring simple minded guy like me boring them. It makes things akward unless you kind of know them. You could ask them if they ever visited anywhere, or just ask them about the weather. Good Luck.
huh Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 What are your interests outside of work? If there's a group of people who do it, get involved. You all have something in common & that always makes conversation easier.
eagle3 Posted September 2, 2007 Posted September 2, 2007 Fear of Woman..i strongly advice you visit..charismaarts.com and also ideagasms.com...this will help you so much, and i promise you that, check out the free podcasts and articles etc.. And stop feeling insecure about yourself..just say whatever is on your mind, even if its the patterns on the carpet..Don't care what other people think, just go and have postive interactions, get use to it..And use the 3 second rule if you spot a beautiful woman, engage a regular and fun conversation..Come on man you got this..if you need any help message me...
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