Sleek Geek Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 Twice in one week, I assumed a guy was into me who wasn't. One had a girlfriend and the other is gay. I suddenly wonder how often I misread guys' signals. I consider myself on the good side of average looking, with a great personality, smart, funny, sweet, caring. Some of my friends have guys chasing after them. I don't really. Well yes and no. Rarely do guys approach me out of the blue. Guys, when you're into a girl, how do you let her know?
Izzy B Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 Read the book by Greg Behrendt. You'll be glad you did. You know when a man is into you because he leaves no room for misinterpretation.
Author Sleek Geek Posted September 1, 2007 Author Posted September 1, 2007 I read that book and I think it makes sense once you are involved with someone and they send mixed signals. I just don't get a lot of guys falling all over themselves to be with me just from seeing me walk down the street. I think I am most charming once you get to know me. So I guess what I am saying is that I am not good at identifying the first signs of interests. And besides, I misread the gay guy's friendliness as potentially being interest. He got in touch with me out of the blue, asked me about an event I was planning to attend this weekend, asking me for my phone number, etc. I was telling a few of my friends about him and they absolutely thought he showed potential. Now that I think about it, if anything, this approach is almost too confident.
uniqueone Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 Twice in one week, I assumed a guy was into me who wasn't. One had a girlfriend and the other is gay. I suddenly wonder how often I misread guys' signals. I consider myself on the good side of average looking, with a great personality, smart, funny, sweet, caring. Some of my friends have guys chasing after them. I don't really. Well yes and no. Rarely do guys approach me out of the blue. Guys, when you're into a girl, how do you let her know? Maybe it's not that you're reading things wrong. Maybe it's them sending out the wrong signals. Another possiblity is that maybe you're coming across like one of the guys. In the situation that you gave with the guy calling you out of the blue for an event, say if you had been a guy that he called.....nothing would have been wrong with that, right? If he had called a guy out of the blue for an event, asked for his number, etc...the other guy wouldn't think that he was "interested" in him. So....it could be that they're treating you like one of the guys. Do you come across that way?
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