cal_veteran Posted August 31, 2007 Posted August 31, 2007 l married my care giver after a 1yr of her service. She tells me shes illegal and wants me to help her. Well since there was SOME Sincere feelings coming from her l got her a Green Card. l had a long stay in Hospital and she come toi see me.......... but after 4-6 months she was telling me of her affairs since l wasn't home. She asked if it would be ok if her boyfriend stayed at my house ...l said no but she did it any how. She got pregnate now has 2yr old boy.... l divorced her now shes illegal again, can't work.... her boyfriend is illegal as well. Now she got a loan for me to buy a new vehicle...which l did... now she thinks she helped me with the money l should help her get papers again... plus wants me to repay the loan. l plan to go with her to INS and discredit her image hoping she will get deported..
smoochygirl Posted August 31, 2007 Posted August 31, 2007 l married my care giver after a 1yr of her service. She tells me shes illegal and wants me to help her. Well since there was SOME Sincere feelings coming from her l got her a Green Card. l had a long stay in Hospital and she come toi see me.......... but after 4-6 months she was telling me of her affairs since l wasn't home. She asked if it would be ok if her boyfriend stayed at my house ...l said no but she did it any how. She got pregnate now has 2yr old boy.... l divorced her now shes illegal again, can't work.... her boyfriend is illegal as well. Now she got a loan for me to buy a new vehicle...which l did... now she thinks she helped me with the money l should help her get papers again... plus wants me to repay the loan. l plan to go with her to INS and discredit her image hoping she will get deported.. Hi where is your exW from? Im originally from japan..Anyway if she already has her green card before how can she loose it? I am an immigrant too when i came here but not illegal, i have my two year green card now and waiting for my 10 year green card next year. Honestly you have to get this women out of your life, she will used you for the rest of your life if you will keep putting up in everything she is doing to you. As far as getting them deported it is easy to do that IF they can find them. Do you want her BF to get deported as well? Do you really want her to get deported or you just want her BF to get deported so you don't have anymore rival? To tell you honestly even if her BF will get deported, she will find another man again..I don't want to sound harsh but the truth is she just want to get a legal papers through you and after that she will dump you again.. why would you go to INS with her? Why didn't you just leave her alone when she did all that to you? why did you stay blind or naive after all that? Why why why?
quankanne Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 if you've got the proper documents, you probably file a grievance (or something similar) with USCIS (immigration) that your marriage to her was fraudulent, and that even though you're divorced, she's still demanding that you support her lifestyle, which is not only unethical, but exploiting a senior citizen. Which I'm guessing that you're one, and therefore a target of a manipulative person who wants to use you to further her means ... you've got grounds for elder abuse perpetuated by this person. if worse comes to worst, ask the local police department about a restraining order, which will NOT look good on her records, as far as immigration issues are concerned.
bish Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 She has an affair on you while you are in the hospital....asks her if she can move her bf in your house and you said yes?? What the hell?? Something not sounding right here. What man in his right mind would allow his wife's bf to live with them? But assuming this weird story is true...hell yes...get her deported...her bf too.
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