Beatnik Posted August 31, 2007 Posted August 31, 2007 Hey everyone. Well I'm a 21 year old male. Good looking and in shape. In college. For the longest time I have been attracted to older women. The way they look, the experience, the maturity, I love it all. In general I do not like girls my own age because they annoy the hell out of me. Most of the women I have dated/fooled around with have been women I've met in the various workplaces I have had. My most recent being 37. It seems when women meet me they really enjoy my personality because I've heard some of the older women I work with talking about me when I thought I couldn't hear them. Well I started a new job and my manager is a very attractive 52 year old woman. Right off the bat we've been very flirty with each other. She's shorter than me so if she need something off a top shelf or something she'll like come up behind me and rub my shoulder with one hand and point to what she needs with the other. Or If, for example, need to scoot by her in a narrow area I'll place my hand on the small of her back and squeeze by, which she seems to enjoy actually hehe. She always comes around and talks to me in that "tell me more dreamboat" kinda way. However, In the past few years I've adopted a "don't dip your pen in company ink" rule, so I'll probably wait until I leave the job to ask her out or anything. My question is, what do you guys think would be the best approach for say asking out an older women, because my experiences in the past just sort of happened (ie, the time was right and we started making out or something like that). And yes I know its a pretty big age difference, but I don't really care.
Lizzie60 Posted August 31, 2007 Posted August 31, 2007 Hey everyone. Well I'm a 21 year old male. Good looking and in shape. In college. For the longest time I have been attracted to older women. The way they look, the experience, the maturity, I love it all. In general I do not like girls my own age because they annoy the hell out of me. Most of the women I have dated/fooled around with have been women I've met in the various workplaces I have had. My most recent being 37. It seems when women meet me they really enjoy my personality because I've heard some of the older women I work with talking about me when I thought I couldn't hear them. Well I started a new job and my manager is a very attractive 52 year old woman. Right off the bat we've been very flirty with each other. She's shorter than me so if she need something off a top shelf or something she'll like come up behind me and rub my shoulder with one hand and point to what she needs with the other. Or If, for example, need to scoot by her in a narrow area I'll place my hand on the small of her back and squeeze by, which she seems to enjoy actually hehe. She always comes around and talks to me in that "tell me more dreamboat" kinda way. However, In the past few years I've adopted a "don't dip your pen in company ink" rule, so I'll probably wait until I leave the job to ask her out or anything. My question is, what do you guys think would be the best approach for say asking out an older women, because my experiences in the past just sort of happened (ie, the time was right and we started making out or something like that). And yes I know its a pretty big age difference, but I don't really care. Older women don't bite... LOL Just ask her out... just like you would ask a younger girl out... but yes, maybe you should wait till you're not working for her... you know...just in case...
Author Beatnik Posted August 31, 2007 Author Posted August 31, 2007 Older women don't bite... LOL Just ask her out... just like you would ask a younger girl out... but yes, maybe you should wait till you're not working for her... you know...just in case... hehe, I know they don't bite but the concern is the attitude most older women seem to have. They generally instantly respond with that "your old enough to be my son" line. So to me it seems like it would be hard for a young guy to simply ask out an older women and have her take him seriously.
tanbark813 Posted August 31, 2007 Posted August 31, 2007 I've dated older women before. Not that much of an age difference, but older. Like Lizzie said, just ask her out like you would a younger chick. It's pretty much the same except there's generally less bullshyt with older women.
Lizzie60 Posted August 31, 2007 Posted August 31, 2007 hehe, I know they don't bite but the concern is the attitude most older women seem to have. They generally instantly respond with that "your old enough to be my son" line. So to me it seems like it would be hard for a young guy to simply ask out an older women and have her take him seriously. You'll never know if you don't try... If she tells you that line again: "your old enough to be my son"... tell her : 'f you were my mom, I would have never left home' ...LOL I heard that in a movie ... Just a little harmless sex (or something like that).
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