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how to get out of the "friends" ditch i'm in


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hi, really like this girl, both of us are in high school. i need help on how to get her to like me for more than as a friend. she has told me that she thought it was better to be just friends when i tried to ask her out 3 weeks ago.

also, i've read online that if you want someone who treats u as just a friend to start liking you, you have to distance yourself from her? is this a good suggestion? what else can i do? i think i have been really nice to her as in helping her and talking to her when she needs to, so maybe that's why she regards me as a friend? any suggestions?

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When you get the 'friends' line, you are pretty much done. If you are not interested in 'just friends' then you will want to distance yourself, remove any and all attention you normally place on her and consider placing it on someone else. Your only chance is that she will miss you, will miss the attention, and not like seeing some other girl get it - then she might consider something more, but its pretty doubtful.

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