niceguy27 Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 Ok...Ive been really good the last 3 days. I have not had any contact with my ex. We are on this 2 week/month break (?) and I really want to call to just shoot the breeze. Is that ok? We have never gone this long before with nc during our relationship. Should I call just to see whats up? Keep it nice and informal? I miss her tremendously and just want her to know that I still would like to keep in touch. Or...does that defeat the whole NC thing? Help
Curious139 Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 Tough call and I understand how you feel. The problem with contact - and it is early stages for you yet, is that all of your pain and feelings might be refreshed. You'll hang on every word she says, her tone of voice, and you'll replay it in your mind afterwards. There is also a risk that she'll say something quite innocently which will hurt you. I think you should wait a week and see how you feel then but it is up to you. Good luck.
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