loveinlife Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 She is the dumper and im the dumpee, how can i get over this?? Why her having so much fun and im in misery...why did she find someone new and im here alone... damn anyone else having this issue?
Author loveinlife Posted August 30, 2007 Author Posted August 30, 2007 She said she would never open one and there is no friends added to the profile, except tom. Im wondering if its someone who is trying to impersonate her... happened to my friend once. I guess an ex is an ex and i should mind my own business.
Fun2BMe Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 You have to stop looking at it. You're setting yourself up for more hurt. I mean do you want to keep looking at it until she starts adding guys and you get more jealous? Create your own page and get occupied with yourself instead of hanging on to her and her interests.
LoveDeluxe78 Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 I just broke up with my ex bf because he was an unemotional, detached ambivalent person. He was non chalant about the breakup, and now he's moving on already I bet, but I'm stuck here hurting. I understand your pain and what you're going through. It hurts, and since he's friends with some of my friends, I know he's on their MySpace, I know I can find out things about him, but I know it's not healthy. So stay away from her MySpace. It's better for your psychy.
Author loveinlife Posted August 30, 2007 Author Posted August 30, 2007 You have to stop looking at it. You're setting yourself up for more hurt. I mean do you want to keep looking at it until she starts adding guys and you get more jealous? Create your own page and get occupied with yourself instead of hanging on to her and her interests. Yeah im so dumb! I mean this should have been over so long ago... Now i know what kind of person she is... either way i should stop. my mental thoughts should focus on myself happiness and not hers bc i bet she doesn't even give a damn. I just broke up with my ex bf because he was an unemotional, detached ambivalent person. He was non chalant about the breakup, and now he's moving on already I bet, but I'm stuck here hurting. I understand your pain and what you're going through. It hurts, and since he's friends with some of my friends, I know he's on their MySpace, I know I can find out things about him, but I know it's not healthy. So stay away from her MySpace. It's better for your psychy. Sorry to hear that love... ppl like you and i mourn over our exes. you are not alone. there are lots of single ppl like you and I. Maybe us single ppl will find a better mate out there. Gluck love =)
Fun2BMe Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 Yeah im so dumb! I mean this should have been over so long ago... Now i know what kind of person she is... either way i should stop. my mental thoughts should focus on myself happiness and not hers bc i bet she doesn't even give a damn. You're not dumb, just hurting. I think she does give a damn and thinks nicely of you, but the sad truth is that she probably is moving on and you should too. Don't wait to confirm that she has. I mean sometimes myspace pages can be very misleading with people making things up and having fake friends on it so stop looking at her page - she might even be doing it on purpose to hurt you, knowing that you'll check up on it, especially if she said she'd never make one and now she suddenly is after the break up, so don't fall for her schemes to hurt you even more.
Author loveinlife Posted August 30, 2007 Author Posted August 30, 2007 thank you fun! Nice to have people like you who care and make things clearer... where are all the nice girls like you? lol
Diplok Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 Stop looking at her "my space." Either she is doing it on purpose to hurt you and show you she has moved on or she's truly moved on, which means she doesn't give a rat's ass about you. You are better off without her. A couple of months from now you'll feel a whole lot better.
Author loveinlife Posted August 30, 2007 Author Posted August 30, 2007 Stop looking at her "my space." Either she is doing it on purpose to hurt you and show you she has moved on or she's truly moved on, which means she doesn't give a rat's ass about you. You are better off without her. A couple of months from now you'll feel a whole lot better. I just saw it once and that was enough for my eyes to see. Its just i had my memories and the promises that we used to share brought up again, thats what made it hurt. Now i guess as a better treatment, something i am going to experiment is to not look so much into the bad things in life and try to focus on the better things. maybe my mind will redirect itself to more positiveness and recenter peace into living.
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