Cobra_X30 Posted August 31, 2007 Posted August 31, 2007 Hmmm...what is all this talk about walls? I've still never been told what walls I'm supposedly putting up. LOL... Do you feel like going into a Q&A session? Ok, Do you feel that the men who are attracted to you are the type of men you want? How do you feel when you recieve rejection? How hurtful is this? What are your most positive personality traits? It may take a little time, but eventually my point should become apparent.
Author uniqueone Posted August 31, 2007 Author Posted August 31, 2007 Do you feel that the men who are attracted to you are the type of men you want? Explain "want". I like them personality wise in many ways. They're also successful, intelligent and athletic. So in that respect, you could say that I WANT them. I DON'T like how some have been critical and have made me feel bad about myself (of course this last guy said that HE didn't make me feel bad.....only I can make myself feel bad........*********.....) How do you feel when you recieve rejection? How hurtful is this? Extremely. What are your most positive personality traits? My negativity. Oh....you want a serious answer....... I'm intelligent, imaginative, some seem to think that I'm funny, compassionate, forgiving, self-sufficient, show originality, don't follow the crowd just because it's easier, not afraid to voice my opinion yet open to others opinions. How's that? Nope...still getting your point.....
Sand&Water Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 RE: Uniqueone, Sadly, you didn't understand my post -nor did you completely absorb the information, by questions, presented. Sure, you were being friendly. There is nothing wrong with being friendly with a man -a stranger -in the park, that is IF he comes forward. BUT that isn't the core of the situation. You lost -that is probably the best way to put it -according to his game. You fell in his trap. Think about it. When a man smiles and stares at you that is equivalent to a "Hi". He knows you exist. That is it. Nothing more. He is simply enjoying the presence of a female -and NOT bothering himself enough to make conversation. He has been looking at you for several times in a row, now, and has done/said NOTHING. What does that say about him? He doesn't have the balls -pardon me -the courage/ego/willingness to actually introduce himself. Spells out wimp -or rather, not interested. A lot -a lot of time has passed, he would made a move by now if he was truly interested. As for Cobra_X30, I agree. And no, no point intended. I write in this manner because it is how I like it. I am more satisfied in organizing, and dividing my post as such. Nothing too exciting to leap across bridges for or against. Sand&Water
Author uniqueone Posted September 1, 2007 Author Posted September 1, 2007 RE: Uniqueone, Sadly, you didn't understand my post -nor did you completely absorb the information, by questions, presented. Sure, you were being friendly. There is nothing wrong with being friendly with a man -a stranger -in the park, that is IF he comes forward. BUT that isn't the core of the situation. You lost -that is probably the best way to put it -according to his game. You fell in his trap. Think about it. When a man smiles and stares at you that is equivalent to a "Hi". He knows you exist. That is it. Nothing more. He is simply enjoying the presence of a female -and NOT bothering himself enough to make conversation. He has been looking at you for several times in a row, now, and has done/said NOTHING. What does that say about him? He doesn't have the balls -pardon me -the courage/ego/willingness to actually introduce himself. Spells out wimp -or rather, not interested. A lot -a lot of time has passed, he would made a move by now if he was truly interested. Um...there's been two instances of this situation so far. And in the first instance, he was getting ready to leave (packing up his bike) and I had just arrived...hardly the opportunity for him there. And who knows if he had to be somewhere. I don't know about where YOU live, but where I live men don't like to really walk up to a woman who's at her car. They're aware they they might end up behind bars if they do. They're not sure if they're going to get a woman who says "Get the hell away from me you pervert" or if they're going to get a nice one. They're also not sure if the woman's large boyfriend/husband is going to suddenly appear. This ain't the 50's anymore, my dear! On the other hand, it doesn't mean he's interested either. He could be staring for some other reason. In which case, he'd be rude.
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