danis Posted August 29, 2007 Posted August 29, 2007 What kind of advice would you give a relative, who's spouse hasn't given him sex in well over a year? She's older than him and says he doesn't treat her nice enough and that she doesn't feel that way towards him. He is a man with a very healthy libido and has now grown bitter towards her in all aspects. He has tried to encourage coucelling but she refuses to go.
4whatItsWorth Posted August 29, 2007 Posted August 29, 2007 She's older than him and says he doesn't treat her nice enough and that she doesn't feel that way towards him. Sounds like the answer could be that he just doesn't treat her nice enough. Perhaps she feels that all sex is to him is to "get it off" no matter if she's enjoying it or not. Perhaps she feels that since he only cares for his own pleasure, he can go please himself. The usual reason for women to refuse sex is either pain, neglect or falling out of love...I could suppose it'd be all three of them. Him being bitter won't do any good. He should ask her what to do - romance her? Give her apprecative comments? Perhaps her sex drive is just lower? He needs to ASK her. We don't know.
Lizzie60 Posted August 29, 2007 Posted August 29, 2007 What kind of advice would you give a relative, who's spouse hasn't given him sex in well over a year? She's older than him and says he doesn't treat her nice enough and that she doesn't feel that way towards him. He is a man with a very healthy libido and has now grown bitter towards her in all aspects. He has tried to encourage coucelling but she refuses to go. My advice to him: Have a serious talk with her... and work some kind of 'agreement' of an open marriage... or if that doesn't work out... simply divorce or get a mistress.. simple.
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