sayanything1451 Posted August 29, 2007 Posted August 29, 2007 Her name is Kim and I like her alot. I just don't know if she likes me. She says hi to me all the time in the hallways at school, likes to touch my hair, calls me "the cool kid", and said that I was cute. When we're in class she looks at me and makes faces and we smile at eachother. There's this other guy who dated her in middle school and he likes to mess with her alot. Just like playing around with her and making fun of her jokingly. He and I are friends too. A couple of days ago we were over at another friend's house and Kim called him wanting to hang out. So my friend and I met up with her and her friend. We just sat around and talked. He was messing around with her like always but she seemed kind of annoyed by it. Anyway he got up and went somewhere for a minute and Kim moved closer to me, touched my hair and then we started talking. When we talk she looks directly into my eyes and she smiles alot. Sometimes we just look at eachother and smile. Sometimes she just comes and sits next to me and we talk about whatever. I don't know if anything she does means anything at all or if we're just on the friends level. Advice?
tanbark813 Posted August 29, 2007 Posted August 29, 2007 It sounds like she might like you. If she looks at your lips sometimes when you're talking, or if she touches your arm then she probably does. How old are you guys?
Author sayanything1451 Posted August 29, 2007 Author Posted August 29, 2007 Me=Freshman She=Sophomore I think she might like me too. It just feels like we're on the friends level. I can't really tell if she loos at my lips when I'm talking. All I know is that she looks directly at me. Today in class she came over to me and sat down with her arms around wrapped around her shins and her feet on the chair. She asked me how I liked high school. I was just like "It's okay", "I mean it's better than middle school". And she was like "Yeah the teachers are alot more leniant and you can pretty much do whatever you want". Then that guy came over and interrupted the conversation.
tanbark813 Posted August 29, 2007 Posted August 29, 2007 You could try asking her out. You can't take her to a bar, obviously , but is there an ice cream place or something nearby? Or maybe a coffee house if you guys drink coffee? It doesn't have to be a big production. Next time you're talking just the two of you just say something like, "Hey do you want to go get ice cream/coffee/whatever after school?" Just make sure you ask as if you know she'll say yes and have a specific time in mind.
Author sayanything1451 Posted August 30, 2007 Author Posted August 30, 2007 There's not really any coffee shop or ice cream place near by. Just the beach... If I did ask her something like that I think she might take it as akward or something like that. That guy I was talking about. Wellhe's like attached to her in a weird way. She doesn't show any feelings for him though. Whenever he asks to hug her she just lets him and sighs. Today after gym everbody was sweaty except for me. I actually was but my shirt wasn't. She said that I was too cute to sweat. And after that she asked me where I lived and I told her. She glanced at in a few times in class. But that was only what I saw. And today after lunch she was like "Hey, what's up?" and I didn't know what to say so I was just like "nothing". I feel so stupid for saying that.
tanbark813 Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 Well you're going to have to get her alone so that guy doesn't cockblock you anymore. You could take her to the beach. Or when she asked where you live you could have invited her over. You could also take her to a nearby park (stole that last idea from someone ). Her saying you're too cute to sweat is a good sign.
Kahuna670 Posted August 30, 2007 Posted August 30, 2007 I know im going through the same thing, but my brother told me that if they ask you things like where do you live or things like that. Its an interest question. Which means it is a very good chance she likes you. Good Luck Man.
ftheunion Posted September 1, 2007 Posted September 1, 2007 Ask her to the beach. Hang around her as much as possible, without that other guy. It's ok to be around her friends. I would say she likes you, dunno how much. But look into her eyes with that quietness, that bonds you no matter what. Think of somewhere fun to go or even just video games somewhere. I've never had a girl touch my hair like that. It is in the green, so just casually take it furthur. But remember take sunscreen and a hell of a lot of cold water in a cooler or something. Then when u two are wading in the waves you could splash her. That carries into a splash fight, but when they get all cold like that they tense up and put there elbows to their sides, then move up to her and hold her, or do that after you get out of the water and she's all cold. Or after she splashes you, grab her and pick her up, or hug her and pull both of ya down underwater. Just that classic flirt stuff. Or you could hold each other out in the waves after being out there a while and y'all are cold. Then just looking into each others eyes would work. Sorry if it sound corny, but I wouldn't mind to try it if I ever got the chance. It could be akward if y'all aren't that close. I don't have any experience really. Good Luck.
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