mikefromnc Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 My Fiance and I broke up on Saturday. She left my stuff at my apartment while I was at work. We had broken up about a week and a half before that only to get back together the next day. The reason we broke up the first time, was my needy and jealous behavior. I tried not to act that way after our reconciliation, but I was drinking on one of our nights apart and apperently was really sappy and kept saying the same things over and over, and really annoyed her. She says that she just lost her feelings for me. I have talked to her mother who likes me and would like to see us together and she says I need to give my ex a couple of weeks or may be even a month to "Miss ME". I am not sure of this advise, but my mother also agrees with it. Any advice? I have thought that I will wait a week and send a letter snail mail that says that I am not playing games, that I care for her deeply and if she is having any second thoughts about this break up then we need to talk because I would like to work this out. I don't think you can just turn your feelings off, but having read a lot of these threads I know someone will say it was happening for a while before the actual break up. Well I know it was, and I just let it happen. Hind sight is 20/20. I love her but don't want to grovel, I know this would push her farther away. But I do want to let her know I love her and would like to try to work this out. Any advice?
tanbark813 Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 I do want to let her know I love her and would like to try to work this out. She already knows. Don't send her a letter or call her or anything. You'd just be beating a dead horse. Like the moms are saying, let her miss you. Oh, and rent or buy Swingers and watch the opening scene 100 times. Or, even better, the whole movie.
birdie Posted August 29, 2007 Posted August 29, 2007 why the needy and jealous behaviour? does she ignore you when you are not together?
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