Arizona100 Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 You know what, I was wondering, since my mister idwtc is a commitment phobic... I am pretty sure he's in love with me (and fighting it haha), I wonder if the last thing I want to tell him is that I am in love with him. He might take off and run like hell lol Thought?
Maria33 Posted August 29, 2007 Posted August 29, 2007 Okay, you are in my exact position 2 weeks ago. I have the same problem with a guy. He likes me but he keeps backing off, his friend says he's scared. We talked one night at length about things. He said he could see himself being happy with me but not me with him. I told him I would. He said his head & heart are saying two different things. I got the feeling that he didn't believe I really had feelings for him. He thinks I'm rebounding from my divorce. I've already done that. So, what did I do? I told him in a note that I loved him. Talked to him 2 days later and he said it was a little freaky. It really hurt my feelings, bad. He has backed off now. I know he still likes me but telling him how I felt didn't help at all. It actually seemed to make things a little harder. So, now, I'm backing off, just trying to be the friend and see where it goes from here. I'm just hoping he's thinking about it and things will work out. Good luck. All I can tell you is go with your heart.
Author Arizona100 Posted August 29, 2007 Author Posted August 29, 2007 That's kind of an odd answer "not happy with me", it sounds like the "it's not you, it's me" kind of answer. It was a question I was asking myself when I read another post, personally my opinion is that it's way too early for that kind of declaration. I might go spend the week end with him as I have some news I want to talk about with him (me moving out of state, closer to his house, I am tired of driving 4 hours), I feel that some things can't be talked about on the phone. About your guy, I'd back the hell off yes, I think you are doing the right thing.
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