swissusadude Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 It is a long story, so I will make it short. It involves a girl that lives in Europe and is two years younger than me. The first time I met her I didn't really have any feelings for her, the second time I saw her again I felt somewhat attracted to her, and she seemed to be somewhat attracted towards me too. Then, pretty recently, while I was in her appartment (both of us are teens) visiting the rest of the family, she was somewhere else on vacation. I saw a picture of her and instantly thought she was very attractive. I left a note saying hi and with my e-mail. Many days afterwards we were in e-mail contact, and this led to chatting, and then using the web-cam. After this, I felt this sort of urge feeling of "seeing" her again, and this led to a night of bad sleep, not being able to eat much, and if I can't get myself distracted enough, I literally think of her every minute. It is an like an obsession, and I really would like to get over it. I chatted with her again today, but I wasn't satisfied for some reason, and whenever I am not chatting with her, I feel that urge. I don't know if you call it love or obsession, either way I will try to see a psychologist, but in the mean time if anyone has any good tips I would greatly appreciate it. I have had many other crushes before, but nothing compares to this. Should I tell her how I feel?
fabulousgal Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 repeating thoughts are ok, as long as they are not constant and keeping you preoccupied. i dont think this is love, she just seems to have sparked your interest very much so, and perhaps you can't stop thinking about her. if the thoughts are overload though, that could be a bit of an issue. maybe you should see someone, just to get yourself in check. it's always good to get a professional, unbiased opinon on your mentality and thought processes. also, they maybe able to coach you into developing a productive relationship with this girl.
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