Maybe putting in my 2 weeks at my job. Should I tell this guy how I feel? If so how?

[Jdancer21]

Ok, here's the thing.

 

There is this guy i've been working with for awhile and I think he is F*cking hot. We're decent friends (i think.) but I'm interested in saying what could happen between us.If not a long term relationship, then at least some form of casual sex (I'm being honest, but I wouldn't say that to him though b/c that's just slutty) I'm not exactly sure if i'm his type however, I told him we should hang out and he agreed. However, I cannot stand my job anymore and I want to move on to bigger and better things. I feel like I should at least tell him what I thought about him before I left. At least with a new job, it's a "nothing lost, nothing gained" situation.If his response is negative, I won't have to deal with the awkwardness and embarrasmentof working with him. I'm not a avid shopper at the place i work at (hollister) so it's not like I'm going to miss anything.Should I quit my job, if he's not there on my last day, I was thinking about coming over there and just talking. It would be kinda hard and weird telling someone how you felt while techno music is just BLARING out. How would I go about telling this guy that I found him attractive in a way that wouldn't have him go "ummmm... ok"?

 

P.S. I'm not quitting on the account of him. Hollister sucks!

[sweetbutcheeky]

Ok, here's the thing.

 

There is this guy i've been working with for awhile and I think he is F*cking hot. We're decent friends (i think.) but I'm interested in saying what could happen between us.If not a long term relationship, then at least some form of casual sex (I'm being honest, but I wouldn't say that to him though b/c that's just slutty) I'm not exactly sure if i'm his type however, I told him we should hang out and he agreed. However, I cannot stand my job anymore and I want to move on to bigger and better things. I feel like I should at least tell him what I thought about him before I left. At least with a new job, it's a "nothing lost, nothing gained" situation.If his response is negative, I won't have to deal with the awkwardness and embarrasment of working with him. I'm not a avid shopper at the place i work at (hollister) so it's not like I'm going to miss anything.Should I quit my job, if he's not there on my last day, I was thinking about coming over there and just talking. It would be kinda hard and weird telling someone how you felt while techno music is just BLARING out. How would I go about telling this guy that I found him attractive in a way that wouldn't have him go "ummmm... ok"?

 

P.S. I'm not quitting on the account of him. Hollister sucks!

 

Leaving could definatly work in your favor and work as a good excuse to let him know you like him. Once you have given notice and it's close to you leaving (not wait until your last day in case he isn't working) say something like "I will be leaving soon and will suck that we won't work together anymore, but here is my number so you can reach me when I am gone so we can hang out"

 

Use your own words, but you get the idea. If he calls he is interested, if he doesn't you know and you don't work there anymore anyway!

[Jdancer21]

Leaving could definatly work in your favor and work as a good excuse to let him know you like him. Once you have given notice and it's close to you leaving (not wait until your last day in case he isn't working) say something like "I will be leaving soon and will suck that we won't work together anymore, but here is my number so you can reach me when I am gone so we can hang out"

 

Use your own words, but you get the idea. If he calls he is interested, if he doesn't you know and you don't work there anymore anyway!

 

I think he's 95% not interested. I say that because, I said we should hang out sometime and he went "Yeah, we could do that" I gave him my number. So that already was done.. the reason why I say he's prolly not interested is b/c yesterday he asked what my name was. Normally that's ok, b/c there are times when I forget names but here's where it gets sketchy... I put my name on the same piece a paper that I put my number on.... As much as I hate to admit it.. it kinda makes me wonder if he put my number in the trash (which isn't anything that hasn't happened before.) However, i'm an avid believer that **** happens, for all i know maybe he was cleaning his pockets and just threw anything useless in the trash not realizing my number was there. I don't know. I find it weird since he's coming up to me giving me very great hugs and telling my good to see you.. as I say to him as well... I approached him about the two of us hanging out in a non-forward way. We talked about hangouts we go to and I just said we should hang out sometime.. nothing more nothing less. I do however see a frienship somewhat progressing.. at this point i'm trying not to make any assumptions on both parts and just take things pretty much one shift at a time. So.. we'll see