funkybassplayer Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 HEllo all iv been split with my ex (her choice 4 months) and in no contact 3 months (her chioce) but i know we were still very close, and she is inscure type (at best) she met a new guy within days on a dating site and he banned the contact with us and me and her kids that i was very close to, and they me. I was very hurt and upset by this, but respected her wish. I have recently started dating myself, as im feeling ready to. Thing is the new guy found my buisness website and emailed me through that saying that i called him and how did i get his number!! I then politly returned the email and said sorry know nothing of it and gave him my moby for him to see (that was on my website anyway!!) I have been minding my own buisness and getting on with my life best i can, most here know what i have been going through,. but now, am doing so much better, really well in fact. But this is puzzling me as; 1) i never called him or her 2) if he has my number on his phone (if i called him) then surly he would call it back wondering who it may be? i mean what did he do, see a number on his phone, asume it was me hunt for my website then email me to ask how i got his number!! which i hav not! My ex created drama and im wondering if this may be the work of this. Im more intregued than anything else, as to why someone would do this. Any ideas would be welcome. Hope your all doing well guys and gals!
Art_Critic Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 It sounds to me that your ex told him a specific number that must've showed up on the caller ID was you instead of who it really belonged too.. She just told him you called him to piss him off..
Author funkybassplayer Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 yes but why would someone do that and also my moby is on the website, so he would have known its not me!! as i said strange!
Author funkybassplayer Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 ps he left his (or someones moby number) on the email, i have no wish to know it or call it.
marty Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 sounds like someone's playing games. not fair on you at all. either she's been talkin about you and he feels threatened somehow,,so contacted, or,,,,, erm,,,,,, i dont know:o weird. like i say, not fair. hope your keeping well funky , your help i wont forget.
Author funkybassplayer Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 Hey marty, im doing ok. you know my life coach said the very same thing as you, shes been talking he feels treatened. Oh well she always found a way to stay in my head and is very good at games, and somewhere here there is a game being played and iv been included without being asked, but im not playing........... hope your doing well. I know bank hols and stuff can be tough, but take it from me, it will get better, and i can vouch for that personaly. Ok this email has kind of put her back in my head, and with good reason, but only made me stop and pause with my life! iv been back out there again and the waters nice.
marty Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 i'm happy to hear that m8. For me , i'm staying out the water for a while yet. water too cold for me. maybe i'll just sit at the side of the pool watchin everyone go by for a while.
Art_Critic Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 Oh well she always found a way to stay in my head and is very good at games, and somewhere here there is a game being played and iv been included without being asked, but im not playing........... Funky.. Remember that it was but a mere few weeks ago that you sent her and her kids a letter with money in it.. all without her knowledge.. this is something you did on your own.. You are playing...you started the play.. he just attempted to finish it... I would suggest that you make doubly sure at this point that you make no attempt to contact her...
Author funkybassplayer Posted August 28, 2007 Author Posted August 28, 2007 Funky.. Remember that it was but a mere few weeks ago that you sent her and her kids a letter with money in it.. all without her knowledge.. this is something you did on your own.. You are playing...you started the play.. he just attempted to finish it... I would suggest that you make doubly sure at this point that you make no attempt to contact her... eer yes a few weeks ago, and the money was to the kids, not a game but b/c they were a big part of my life for 2 years. He emailed me and has made out i called him, which we both know i never, he emailed me via my website again she has my email. If they were working together on this would he not have just said dont send money to the kids, and fair anough, i would have respected that, but as i said it was something that at the time i wanted to do for them, and was prepeared for that kind of come back, which never came from eighter of them, and since i have said and done nothing. But he made up a cock n bull story about me calling him and how i got his number? in fact the vibe in the way it was written was very sheepish, and nothing to do with money come on, 2 and 2 does not add to 4. So 6 weeks later he decides to say this? no thats not why he did this. If it was to do with the money i sent, at the start of the hols, he would have been on me like a shot if she wanted that, but i did it with noi game in mind, and she knows me well enough for that. If i felt you were right i would say, but i dont. Any way to be honest, as i said, she out of my head now, and iv moved on, but this has just made me wonder, nothing more or nothing less, in fact the way it was written, i could have sworn it was her!!
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