Yellowboy Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 I am 0-3 this year. These girls are attractive, but is insecure and lacking confidence, yet she has lot of guy friends. When I try to date these girls, it so happens they just came out of a relationship and that is pretty much why relationship (if you can call it that) either didn't go anywhere or it simply fell apart. It seems I fell into a pattern here...some of my friends point out certain things, but I bring up a counter-agrument so hear me out... Friend: Why do you always go for these type of girls? Me: Isn't it in our nature to look for someone attractive? We won't find out what they are as a person until you get to know them and start dating. It just so happens the girls all had similar flaws. Can I help it? Friend: Why are you trying to be the "rebound guy"? Me: Oh so you want me to wait and instead give someone else the chance to date her? I don't wait, I take the initiative. Waiting will just give other guys their chances. I take the risk. And lastly, more like a self-thought...maybe it's just purely bad luck and bad timing. What if they were single, and not fresh out of a relationship? Were my odds better? But you don't find attractive girls to be single, they're usually taken, so how in the hell do you find someone who is not taken? They're all taken I'm telling you man!
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