stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 so me and the guy i have been talking about are going to get married on saturday i never would have done this but we just found out that the navy is sending him to japan in three weeks and he will be there for 4 years so we are going to start are life in japan as husband and wife everything is going to be very diffrent but hey lifes full of surprises and this is really going to be a fresh new start for me and for him im still going to be going to school part time and working the rest until are little peaunts are born im also scared to death i know nothing about being a wife and a mother to be of twins but thats all part of life is learning things on your own
VinaAmez Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 Does your family whats going on and that your moving away with him?
Lizzie60 Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 I am sceptic... this is a troll.... I don't buy this story anymore...it's getting bigger and bigger each post... Nice try... this is way too 'overboard' to be believable.. Someone's is trolling...
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 yes they do my mom actually had to sign the papers because im not 18 yet but yes they no there upset that i will be in a totally diffrent country but they no i love him and with me being almost 5 months pregnant with twins they think its the best thing for me and him to be together my dad wishs i would stay down here til he gets out of jail but hes ok with it we will come home on holidays and we are going back for a month so i can have the twins here so they can see them
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 look here lizzie if your going to try and be such a bit*h try it on some one else its not my fault you such a slut and will never settle down with one man but thats not how it works with me and yes in the navy things do just pop up and by the way im almost five months pregnant but thats not something i go around telling everybody it personal
Lizzie60 Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 look here lizzie if your going to try and be such a bit*h try it on some one else its not my fault you such a slut and will never settle down with one man but thats not how it works with me and yes in the navy things do just pop up and by the way im almost five months pregnant but thats not something i go around telling everybody it personal Uou just started to post yesterday and already know that much about me... ha-hem...you just confirm my doubts... you are a troll....
IpAncA Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 You don't think it's best that you stay here and get the help you need. Believe me your going to need help raising twins. This way you could go to school and one day college so you can get a decent job. I might be off here but do they even let pregnant women on plans anymore? I know early ones use to be able to but isn't the cut off like 5 or 6 months? BTW Lizzy is that your a**? I've been wondering all evening. LOL!!
Balalaika Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 Holy cow! You're 16, about to quickly tie the knot, move to a foreign country (one where I suspect you don't know the language, one that has a totally different culture, one that views women differently from the west), you will have no friends or family close to you, be 'trapped' there like it or not for 4 years, and is talking about having babies (twins?!). Girl, I feel scared for you. Someone at 35 would find this situation challenging to say the least. Good question: where's your families input on this?.
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 you know i really dont care but until your in the navy or no someone that is then you will learn that things come up all the time and yes pregnant people are allowed on plans until they are 8 months so yes i would like to stay here i know i am going to need help rasing them but i thin its only right for me to go with him yeah i was also wondering if thats your a**
IpAncA Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 Why is it only right for you to go? You don't have to go if you don't want to.
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 my family is ok with it but of course they are upset about me moving so far away while im pregnant but they support my choices
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 hes going to be my husband and i am pregnant with his kids and i dont want to be away from him that long and i thin he should be able to be there for the first 4 years of the twins lifes
jcster Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 Is this a country song? Just throw in something about a pickup truck and a dog, and you're home free. Are you sure you shouldn't move to Nashville instead?
IpAncA Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 You know it's not easy being a military W and yes I know all the little perks your getting being married to him. How are you going to feel in 5 years or maybe even 10 years? You think you'll still love him and never ever want to be with anyone else? What happends if you met someone else?
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 lol this is what i want and i no i'll be happy im not saying it wont be hard being away from family and friends but though times never last and tough people always do
IpAncA Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 hes going to be my husband and i am pregnant with his kids and i dont want to be away from him that long and i thin he should be able to be there for the first 4 years of the twins lifes The 1st 4 years? What happends after that?
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 i know i will love him in 5,10 or even 20 years we have been together for almost 3 and we have already been through so much
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 we go whereever they tell him to go next its going to be hard but i'll get to see alot of the world that probally never would have if he wasnt in the navy
Hurt & Alone Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 My oppinion is to wait. You may be pregnant but geez, you are so young. At 15/16 years old my parents would have flipped. I married at 26, got pregnant at 27 at that was still young. You truly have no idea waht is in store for you. The man you are with should be thrown in prison for messing a girl at such a vunerable age. You will miss alot of the memories of growing up as a teenager and doing what normal kids do at your age. You are going to do what you want but you really need to reconsider this. Additionally, what kind of parents do you have to allow such a thing to occur. If my daughter approached me in 12 years to let me know one that she was pregnant and two it was with a man 10 years her age hold me back because someone is going to be feeling my wrath.
Hurt & Alone Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 i know i will love him in 5,10 or even 20 years we have been together for almost 3 and we have already been through so much You were 12 and he was 22? WTF, your parents belong in prison too.
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 im 16 and he is 25 not 12 and 22
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 my parents didnt even know we were together til i told them i was pregnant
Hurt & Alone Posted August 26, 2007 Posted August 26, 2007 Ok 16, but did you not just post that you have been togther 3, I will only assume you are talking about 3 years? and your profile lists you as 15 and you just started posting yesterday. So I guess Happy Birthday
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 26, 2007 Author Posted August 26, 2007 yes i did just turn 16 today but yes i was 12 when we first started dateing
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