stressedgurl15 Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 ok so im 15 and my boyfriend is 25 i love him alot and i know he loves me my parents love him alot to and he asked me to marry him a few days ago does anybody know if we can get married in texas with my parents signuter? help im so conffused
Lizzie60 Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 ok so im 15 and my boyfriend is 25 i love him alot and i know he loves me my parents love him alot to and he asked me to marry him a few days ago does anybody know if we can get married in texas with my parents signuter? help im so conffused Pleeeeease ... you're still a kid.. you are probably not finish high school yet... ha-hem... maybe you should concentrate on your studies... You are wwwayyy too young and I just hope that your parents are not stupid enough to sign...
IpAncA Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 Oh please don't get married at your age. WAIT!!!!
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 25, 2007 Author Posted August 25, 2007 im just so ready to get out of the house that im at plus my mom got married at the same age and i really love him i know i should probablly wait but i dont know how to tell him
yergawd Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 Yes, with parent signitures, you can. That said, please listen to the previous posts and mine. I married my highschool sweetheart at 18 and a few days. I know the love you have is different, and no one knows how strong the love that you two share is. I KNOW. I also know you are not done becoming the woman you are going to be. When you are 20 the world will seem 100% different than how it seems right now. Right now it's the two of you against the world. That will change, you will want to be a bigger part of that world. Don't leave your boyfriend but wait. Don't you want to have the wedding of your dreams and not just what you can afford to scrap together right now? Love yor BF love the time you spend together but don't rush into regret. I am not lecturing. I am speaking from being in your shoes.
Cobra_X30 Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 Listen... my great aunt and uncle got married at that age.... and they have been together ever since. SO, it can work... but 1950 was a different world. I'm telling you right now that your too young to be making these kinds of descisions. I am 27 and I would never ask a girl of 17 to marry me. Why? Because she hasnt had her life yet. Go to college... Live on your own. Get a job... do all those things you want to do. If you dont its going to be a world of what if's and regrets. I know girls that got married just a little older than you, to guys 10 years older. Lets just say it hasnt worked out great... its working... but not great. Here is the thing. If you feel like you WANT to wait... tell him that your just too young and that there are a couple of things you want to do before you marry. Make sure he knows your not turning him down because you want to date other guys. But if you really, really feel like you WANT to marry him... IN TEXAS you can get married with parental consent, AND the permission of a judge at 13 for girls. Good luck in life!!
Author stressedgurl15 Posted August 25, 2007 Author Posted August 25, 2007 i really do get what your saying and i think thats what i needed to hear
Cobra_X30 Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 Yes, with parent signitures, you can. That said, please listen to the previous posts and mine. I married my highschool sweetheart at 18 and a few days. I know the love you have is different, and no one knows how strong the love that you two share is. I KNOW. I also know you are not done becoming the woman you are going to be. When you are 20 the world will seem 100% different than how it seems right now. Right now it's the two of you against the world. That will change, you will want to be a bigger part of that world. Don't leave your boyfriend but wait. Don't you want to have the wedding of your dreams and not just what you can afford to scrap together right now? Love yor BF love the time you spend together but don't rush into regret. I am not lecturing. I am speaking from being in your shoes. Damn! Now thats good advice straight from the heart!
sweetbutcheeky Posted August 25, 2007 Posted August 25, 2007 ok so im 15 and my boyfriend is 25 i love him alot and i know he loves me my parents love him alot to and he asked me to marry him a few days ago does anybody know if we can get married in texas with my parents signuter? help im so conffused At 15 your just getting to know yourself! You have a lot of exploring within to do, finding yourself and loving yourself before you can love someone else. I know it feels like it but your not ready for marriage, you have so much in life to experience before getting married. You will be robbing yourself experiences in life. I hope that your parents would see this too and not sign. My cousin did this at 17 and lets just say she is on her 3rd marriage and is only 35.
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