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I'm currently in the process of getting to know ONE FEMALE which is not good numbers to me. So 5 other females contacted me this week and then i noticed they haven't contacted me in 3 or 4 days. So since the weekend is here I sent all of them a email this morning asking-"are we going to get to know each other this weekend?

 

I don;t think this is being needy because how else am I going to ever meet new people? Isn;t this just me being agressive in gaining more female friends? Or it can mean that I'm being out competed by other men-lol

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Are you actually looking for 'friendship' or is it 'companionship' you're after.

 

Why not get to know ONE or TWO women instead of 5 or 6?

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I command you on your proactive initiative. I also recommand you start referring to 'females' as women. You'll see, it makes them that much more human and that much less another specie.

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Did you send the same response to each one? Copy paste sort of thing?

 

Also, I would add that waiting until Fri to ask for a date for the weekend is ...lame.

 

You should have contacted and persued earlier in the week to be taken as a serious contender. IMO.

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Did you send the same response to each one? Copy paste sort of thing?

 

Also, I would add that waiting until Fri to ask for a date for the weekend is ...lame.

 

You should have contacted and persued earlier in the week to be taken as a serious contender. IMO.

 

Yeah, I think you blew it with the females, I mean, chicks. Gotta give a woman time to plan, you know? She doesn't want to appear to needy and like she is available on a moments notice.

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Are you actually looking for 'friendship' or is it 'companionship' you're after.

 

Why not get to know ONE or TWO women instead of 5 or 6?

 

 

leaving the door open for both

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Yeah, I think you blew it with the females, I mean, chicks. Gotta give a woman time to plan, you know? She doesn't want to appear to needy and like she is available on a moments notice.

 

 

I didn't say I was asking for a date, i said they responded to my ad online and I noticed that they were staying in contact with me and i wanted to know what was up

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how do you meet all these women, da?

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how do you meet all these women, da?

 

I meet them online

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I meet them online

 

There's your first mistake.

 

GET OFF THE COMPUTER and GO OUTSIDE to meet women! At the grocery store, walking in the park, even at a bar.

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I would find that message...jerky. It sounds like, "Listen broad, if you don't want to hang out this weekend on my couch with me and give me safe sexual play then don't waste my time responding to this message, biatch."

 

A better inquiry would have been, "I'd like to get to know you better. I know this is last minute, but I'm available tomorrow afternoon for coffee or lunch if you're free? Hope to hear from you. Best, DA."

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DA, you use online dating like one big ego-stroke. If you sincerely wanted to meet someone for something more, it would come across to the other individual, who is of interest to you.

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I would find that message...jerky. It sounds like, "Listen broad, if you don't want to hang out this weekend on my couch with me and give me safe sexual play then don't waste my time responding to this message, biatch."

 

A better inquiry would have been, "I'd like to get to know you better. I know this is last minute, but I'm available tomorrow afternoon for coffee or lunch if you're free? Hope to hear from you. Best, DA."

 

 

That's pretty much what I was saying, that was my last attempt to try and get to know her.

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A better inquiry would have been, "I'd like to get to know you better. I know this is last minute, but I'm available tomorrow afternoon for coffee or lunch if you're free? Hope to hear from you. Best, DA."

 

Thats really good advice, SG. You might want to cut and paste that statement and put it to memory and BELIEVE in it.

 

I wouldnt rely on the online thing so much. Go out, meet new people.

Or at least throw quarters on the ground to watch hot women bend over and pick them up, or something!

 

But too much computer I think

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That's pretty much what I was saying, that was my last attempt to try and get to know her.

 

Which one were you trying to say? The first one?

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Which one were you trying to say? The first one?

 

 

The purpose of the email was to say-"Tell me what's really going on or I'm gone"

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Or at least throw quarters on the ground to watch hot women bend over and pick them up, or something!

 

 

This is hilarious. I am going to empty my piggy bank of quarters now and be sure to drop a few amongst the firemen around town. I will be discreet and let one fall away while I am putting the single in the boot.

 

Excellent advice.

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The purpose of the email was to say-"Tell me what's really going on or I'm gone"

 

This is hilarious.

 

Has not every single woman you've attempted to date rejected YOU? I think you should be sticking around a little (no, a LOT) longer than you have been to actually get to know these women.

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This is hilarious.

 

Has not every single woman you've attempted to date rejected YOU? I think you should be sticking around a little (no, a LOT) longer than you have been to actually get to know these women.

 

 

The frustrated that is when a female replies to my ad with my pic and the cmm between is not strong. Oh maybe it's that aanother guy more hadnsome came along which would really be dumb

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Which site do you advertise on DA?

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The frustrated that is when a female replies to my ad with my pic and the cmm between is not strong. Oh maybe it's that aanother guy more hadnsome came along which would really be dumb

 

Why are you blaming the WOMEN for the poor communication? In all honesty, you're not the best communicator yourself.

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Which site do you advertise on DA?

 

the craiglist website

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DA have you tried other sites hon?

 

Where do you live? USA?

 

I am British

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DA have you tried other sites hon?

 

Where do you live? USA?

 

I am British

 

The state of Pennsylvania

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You should really post a pic, we might be able to suggest ways to improve your presentation.

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