whats going on

[curlgrl21]

Okay so here is the deal like two months ago my x broke up with me then i found out like 2 weeks later that he was cheating on me with his now current girlfriend who he asked to marry him and they have only been together for 2 months and he asked her after one month and they have only known eachother for like 5 months total. He is basicaly raising her kids and being her personal taxi driver cause she doesnt have a car or a liscens.....but to get back to what i was saying.....no one in his family likes her and i am still talking to him she doesnt know about it but he wants to be my friend. I kow that i still love him but i really dont know how he feels its really confusing. I told him that i might move to another state and he started to freak he said that he doesnt want me to move he asked how he would ever talk to me i told him there is always the phone but he said that he doesnt want me to move. If i say i am gonna go out later he always asks me with who and when if i say its a guy he gets mad. He doesnt talk to anyone any more except for me, but then why is he still with her...Everyone thinks its because he likes her kids so much he is very attached to them. Every time someone sees them somewhere they say he looks miserable unless he is holding one of the kids. He has me so confused and i dont want to ask him what is going on in his head cause i do wanna be his friend i just want him to stop playing with me i just dont know what to do!!

[Hero2Zero]

Sorry to hear that curlgrl21. If he's still seeing the other girl and still wants to be your friend to have around, get out of it now. You don't want to be in that situation. You're going to be a back up in case something goes bad with this girl he's with. If he cheated on you, you should stand up for yourself and move on, he's not worth it. He doesn't respect you and is not honest with you. Trust and Respect...2 pillars in a relationship, in addition to love. You're out 2 out of the 3 pillars, get out now and save yourself the hurt later. Plenty of other guys out there who can treat you better because you deserve better.