DateAnalyzer Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 I noticed a lot this year that if I'm on the phone with a woman and her line beeps, she will click over and not click back over and just leave me on the other end holding the phone. And of course since it's a female doing this, it has to be some type of family emergency. But I'm going to start doing this too and bet someone has a problem with it. So many games played by women and people want to know why I prefer being in the Fetish lifestyle instead of looking for love. It's because of little girl games like that on the phone
popey Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 well, I'm thinking that there is more to your story I guess. I certainly can't imagine that you think that you would think that there is a conclusion to be drawn that one woman's inconsiderate phone practices would be responsible for a possible pre-existant interest in festish and/or adversity to relationships? the phone behavior is inconsiderate IMO. But I have found that people have very different oppinions/understandings on this topic. I would address it in a clear, but light hearted way.
underpants Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 DA, You posts are fun to read. This latest issue is easy to fix. First, never turn into a quality that you don't like. That is just silly. I have a female friends that do this to me on occassion. When she clicks over I simply give her 20 seconds ish. Then I simply hang up. Usually I get a call back. No biggie. It is not a game and there could be valid reasons. If it is a game then ...don't play. Simple really.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted August 24, 2007 Author Posted August 24, 2007 well, I'm thinking that there is more to your story I guess. I certainly can't imagine that you think that you would think that there is a conclusion to be drawn that one woman's inconsiderate phone practices would be responsible for a possible pre-existant interest in festish and/or adversity to relationships? the phone behavior is inconsiderate IMO. But I have found that people have very different oppinions/understandings on this topic. I would address it in a clear, but light hearted way. It happened to me tonight and I just started doing something else and when she called back I didnt answer
Trialbyfire Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 While I agree that courtesy appears to be a thing of the past, one incident does not make a rule...
underpants Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 It happened to me tonight and I just started doing something else and when she called back I didnt answer Here is where I think you might have screwed up. Why not answer??? So what, she called you back to explain. I thought I was sensitive. You need to relax man.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted August 24, 2007 Author Posted August 24, 2007 Here is where I think you might have screwed up. Why not answer??? So what, she called you back to explain. I thought I was sensitive. You need to relax man. Because I just didn' feel the need to tak to her at that moment. I'm not cutting her off or anything but I was still annoyed by what she did
underpants Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 Okay, I guess I am not as analytical. I will try. How much time went by between the call waiting and the return call? How long/how many talks (voice/in person/chat) have you had with this lady? Did she leave a message? Or is your machine turned off? I just need all the facts if I am going to dive into this.
Author DateAnalyzer Posted August 24, 2007 Author Posted August 24, 2007 Okay, I guess I am not as analytical. I will try. How much time went by between the call waiting and the return call? How long/how many talks (voice/in person/chat) have you had with this lady? Did she leave a message? Or is your machine turned off? I just need all the facts if I am going to dive into this. It's a girl i just met but I don't expect someone not to be talking to other men just because they just met me, i just don;t want her to be rude about how she spreads her attention around.
underpants Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 It's a girl i just met but I don't expect someone not to be talking to other men just because they just met me, i just don;t want her to be rude about how she spreads her attention around. How can you assume what the click over incident was over? Maybe you are just meeting so many ladies that you can write them off this easily? You need to relax and be open to the possibility that they might also be nervous or that they might make a few fumbles in the beginning. In not answering when she called you back, you took an action. Sounds pouty to me. I would have at least answered and gotten an explanation before writing her off.
birdie Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 How can you assume what the click over incident was over? Maybe you are just meeting so many ladies that you can write them off this easily? You need to relax and be open to the possibility that they might also be nervous or that they might make a few fumbles in the beginning. In not answering when she called you back, you took an action. Sounds pouty to me. I would have at least answered and gotten an explanation before writing her off. second that
Author DateAnalyzer Posted August 24, 2007 Author Posted August 24, 2007 How can you assume what the click over incident was over? Maybe you are just meeting so many ladies that you can write them off this easily? You need to relax and be open to the possibility that they might also be nervous or that they might make a few fumbles in the beginning. In not answering when she called you back, you took an action. Sounds pouty to me. I would have at least answered and gotten an explanation before writing her off. I didn't write her off, i was just playing phone games.
Kamille Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 I didn't write her off, i was just playing phone games. Since she called back I don't think we can say for sure that SHE was intentionnally playing a game.
burning 4 revenge Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 DA women are vicious by their very nature. If you don't believe me check out the death penalty thread in the politics section
whichwayisup Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 I didn't write her off, i was just playing phone games. So, you're doing what she was doing to you..... You also don't know if there was an emergency on the other line! I mean, sure there's always a chance she was messing with you, but that doesn't make sense as the fact is SHE CALLED YOU BACK. It's possible that she's a forgetful person and realized "oh no! DA was on the other line!!" And then she called you back. You're assuming the WORST out of every woman you meet, thinking they're all playing games and out to get you! Come on! If you're gonna do the dating thing, you gotta BE more positive and not take every little thing so personally and analyze it to death. No offense here, but acting worse than a confused teen!
Author DateAnalyzer Posted August 24, 2007 Author Posted August 24, 2007 So, you're doing what she was doing to you..... You also don't know if there was an emergency on the other line! I mean, sure there's always a chance she was messing with you, but that doesn't make sense as the fact is SHE CALLED YOU BACK. It's possible that she's a forgetful person and realized "oh no! DA was on the other line!!" And then she called you back. You're assuming the WORST out of every woman you meet, thinking they're all playing games and out to get you! Come on! If you're gonna do the dating thing, you gotta BE more positive and not take every little thing so personally and analyze it to death. No offense here, but acting worse than a confused teen! I guess since it happens with 85% of the women I talk to, how can i not expect the worst?
whichwayisup Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 When you are talking to a woman on the phone and her callwaiting beeps, BEFORE she goes to the other line TELL HER "I hate callwaiting, so call me back." Be firm about it.
directx Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 How long do these conversations go on, DA? Am I correct in assuming they are always the one ending the phone call? You may want to limit them to a half hour. You know, keep them wanting more? I hate talking on the phone and get off as soon as I possibly can. Rarely do I talk longer than half hour.
sweetbutcheeky Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 It happened to me tonight and I just started doing something else and when she called back I didnt answer If you don't like games, why are you playing them? If someone puts you on hold, well it's just rude. But you do the same to them, someone else or don't pick up when they call. Then your the one playing games. (and could risk not talking to the person anymore)
Author DateAnalyzer Posted August 24, 2007 Author Posted August 24, 2007 If you don't like games, why are you playing them? If someone puts you on hold, well it's just rude. But you do the same to them, someone else or don't pick up when they call. Then your the one playing games. (and could risk not talking to the person anymore) so what you are saying is only females are allowed to play games?
directx Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 so what you are saying is only females are allowed to play games? You know, there might be some truth to that...
Author DateAnalyzer Posted August 24, 2007 Author Posted August 24, 2007 You know, there might be some truth to that... I know it is
directx Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 I know it is Well, just be a man like John Wayne and don't allow any games to be played. Most girls probably would love the no-nonsense approach. You should give your brain a break and stop analyzing every little thing and just ask for the dang meaning of what they say! You will find it quite refreshing! Plus, it will like taking control of your life again. Unless you love the fantasy of not knowing and the fantasy of what could be?
sweetbutcheeky Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 so what you are saying is only females are allowed to play games? No of course not, it's not right for anyone to play them. I'm sick and tired of them myself. I'm just saying that someone putting you on hold doesn't make it a game. Just someone being rude, some people can't say no to the beep of another call. Personally if I am talking to someone I ignore the beep and call the other person back later. Not all people are like that. Doesn't make it a game, just rude and inconsiderate. Something to think about.
underpants Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 I guess since it happens with 85% of the women I talk to, how can i not expect the worst? When you expect the worst you will seek out the worst. Just saying. Now I just have to say I do not have call waiting or caller ID in my home. Less drama in Under's world. I do have these options on my cell but I don't really read too much into it all. Good luck texting me....oye.
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