alpha70 Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 I had a friend of a friend who opened up a myspace acct. Next thing I hear is that he's unknowingly gotten in contact with my x. This gets back to me and we decided to see how she would react to someone who was really interested in her. It's been about 2 wks since we broke up or had our last tiff. Long story short.....she was all over him. Basically saying she was open to giving him her number, and starting a conversation with him. He portrayed himself as a guy who just wanted to have fun and was very crued in his advances towards her. SHe was eating this disrespect up.....so sad. THEN....he got her to talk about me. She finally opened up and RIPPED me a new one. I couldn't believe how cold this woman was. Bringing things up from the beginning of our relationship and how I wasn't there for her, when I was TOTALLY there for her. She's a total nut! Spilling her guts to a guy she doesn't know AT ALL. It was an eye OPENER for sure and just showed me what an idiot this woman was. Guess you don't know someone until you hear them talk trash about you 2 wks after you break up. She was hostile too.....said she didn't have any "unresolved issues" with this relationship and when she's done, she's done. I'm lucky to be done with her...it was a good final nail in the coffin. The BEST part of this story is that when she was done SLAMMING me to this guy, the guy wrote her back and totally WENT OFF on her telling her that she needs to get HELP for herself and how she needs therapy. Has more baggage than Paris Hilton on a flight to Japan. It was precious...she was blown away and had no clue she had been had! Felt like a total jackass, I'm sure. As she should have....what a loser. that was my last dig.....I'm done and she's back on myspace ready to date once again.....poor sap who runs into her. Yikes!
Lizzie60 Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 Wow... you're just as immature for teaming up with a guy to get her. How old are you? 15-16? You got to be very young... Why would you care that she's moved on and trying to meet other guys... that's none of your business anymore... get a life dude... move on... You're not better than she is... you're bashing her with your friends I'm sure and on here... you trapped her into talking about you...what did you expect... plus... I should add, from what I read here... maybe she's better off without you... we only get one side of the story, she's not here to defend herself.
Author alpha70 Posted August 24, 2007 Author Posted August 24, 2007 I can see your point. Sure, but no one knows the situation better than the poster, and she's not the person she portrayed herself as....that simple. It's just a case of how people "want" to be when they first start up a relationship to the person they "are" when the relationship moves forward. Be yourself from the start. If you're a giver be a giver...if you're a taker...just be a taker. Simple....she wasn't herself in the beginning and showed who she was by handling things the way she did.....w/zero respect.
number2 Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 yeah, that is immature as hell, but if thats how you gain final closure than more power you!
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