budd98 Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 I have been broken up with my gal of 2.5 years for a couple weeks now. 4 days ago I made an effort to win her back and I thought it worked until 2 days ago I caught her in bed with another guy. They were'nt doing anything at the time, but she would'nt let me in either. She wanted to hide this other guy and play the "I'm not home" card. Anyways, I waited on the curb and she called the copps on me. I have never been mean, called names, or harassed this girl in my life. I was completely calm that night. I just wanted her to give me closure after finding that out. The next day I text her saying I want my stuff and she said she did'nt do anything with anyone. She then said, "I'm sick of you blaming me for things your doing." Meaning I am cheating on her. I have never done anything like that, just crazy she blames me for her having a guy in her bed. So my problem is this, why do I miss someone that treated me so bad? How can I get the thoughts of her and another guy out of my head? I am doing no contact to move on, but it is getting so hard. I treated her amazing and I got no return. How can someone do that? I am just so lost with my thoughts and could use some advice. Thanks.
Scorpio13c Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Hey Budd, Sorry you're feeling so bad, but you really shouldn't, I mean who wants to be with a person who's shares her bed with others?? I wouldn't & I don't think you do either. Be a Man, Man! walk away pride intact & know you're doing the right thing. Take a break from thinking about her & always remember that someone who loves you, would not do that. Take care
norajane Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 She's being a bitch because she already found another guy. That's why she's treating you badly...she had already moved on before she broke up with you, so she's long past the stage where she's going to be careful of your feelings. Your best course of action is to completely cut off contact with her. Trust me, you do not want to be the guy who is calling and emailing and begging her to come back. She will stomp on you more if you do that. As hard as it is, just move on and don't contact her, don't reply if she contacts you. You will realize soon that you do not miss HER, and you do not miss the way she treated you...you may miss having SOMEONE in your life, and you may miss the good times, but what you miss most is the dream, the fantasy of being with her...you don't miss the bitchy person she actually is.
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