4givrnt4gtr Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Long story short. SO and I were joking around about some things we wanna try out sexually. So then he asks me if i want him to bring and ex student (we were joking that he was the teacher). My joking mood immediately stops. Not so much bc of the threesome insinuation, but bc I feel he's telling me he's still seeing an ex (how else is he gonna bring her in unless he's seeing her still!) Although i wasnt really joking anymore, i kept pretending to be joking, asking him if he keeps his keeps a close relationship with his ex students since they are willing to come back like that. He said no, that they all live their own lives. We kept "joking" telling me he only lets them join in during phase 3 of the program (threesome). At this point i tell him i really hope he is kidding. He winks at me and says i must think he's some kind of nymph. I say "you are seeing an ex arent ya" (we're not exclusive at this point) and he says "hell no!" that he doesnt have the time or energy nor does he want to see her.... Now....i honestly dont know how to take all this. I know we were joking around but that was kinda...i dont know.... What do you guys think? would you believe him about him not seeing his ex or would u take the joking more seriously? Im mad confused about this!!!
Capricciosa Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Sounds like a man with a plan to me. I would take it a face value.
directx Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Well, thats the best strategy in the world! A guy tries out crazy stuff with a woman by setting it up so he can say "I was kidding!" if it backfires. Trust me. I had a friend that would get action all the time by doing this. This way, he could see how far he could go without making the girl mad.
tanbark813 Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 I think you're jumping to conclusions. I don't agree with this at all: how else is he gonna bring her in unless he's seeing her still! It's not that hard to hook up with an ex even if you haven't spoken in a while. The groundwork has already been laid.
jcster Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 It's not that hard to hook up with an ex even if you haven't spoken in a while. The groundwork has already been laid. That being said, I don't think he was joking about the threesome, and I don't think it's the first time he brought in an ex to fill in the trio.
tanbark813 Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 That being said, I don't think he was joking about the threesome, and I don't think it's the first time he brought in an ex to fill in the trio. Yeah, I agree. I'm just saying you don't need to be actively seeing an ex to be able to hook things up later and it sounded like that was the thing she was most concerned about.
directx Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 I wonder if its a better strategy to shoot really high to get what you want. Say you want a threesome. So ask for a 9 ninesome, so you have room to negotiate down to a three some
tanbark813 Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 I wonder if its a better strategy to shoot really high to get what you want. Say you want a threesome. So ask for a 9 ninesome, so you have room to negotiate down to a three some You, sir, are a shrewd businessman.
popey Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 I'm unclear if you are trying to discern if he really wants a threesome or if he is still seeing the ex?
directx Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 When I see the word 3 some and it involves women, i kind of get narrow minded and thats all I see
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted August 23, 2007 Author Posted August 23, 2007 I'm unclear if you are trying to discern if he really wants a threesome or if he is still seeing the ex? No, i know he wants a threesome, we've discussed this before, its a fantasy we both have. What concerns me is that he might still be seeing the ex....but i guess Tan is right, its not that hard to hook up with an ex, ive done it before and i wasnt seeing him regularly.
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