nottoobright Posted August 22, 2007 Posted August 22, 2007 I am so angry I feel as if I am going to burst or do something really, really bad. Today I went and had blood drawn so I can be tested for STD's and my husband said he would go too BUT conveniently when he got there it was too late for him to be tested. He is the p.o.s. that screwed around and I am the one having to get tested first..... God I am so mad. It is wednesday night, 7:30pm and the wh*re will be calling here at 9:00. Just knowing that she gets to call my home makes me want to puke. Every Wednesday and Sunday she has rights to the telephone which means me and my kids can't even THINK about using the phone or getting online. I feel like pulling the damned cord out of the wall or busting the phone. This p.o.s. is acting like there is no cause for concern, since yesterday I've heard stories from 2 different co-workers telling me how many guys she was screwing while she was screwing around with Jim who was screwing around on me. The "happy" feeling I had, that he got what he deserved was very short lived, now I'm just really f'ing pissed off. I asked him earlier if he was proud or pleased that he took such a huge risk and put my life in jeapordy and he had no answer. I am so afraid, I've watched this 5'11" woman go from about 165lbs to about 100lbs in the last year and according to our lawyer she has some kind of personal "issue" that he cannot discuss with us. For some reason the b*tch confided in our lawyer during a mediation and he cannot tell us even what it is, well worth the $11,000.00 we spent, huh??? I'm just venting wondering if I should stay or if I should just leave. I don't think I want him to EVER touch me again, I think I'd rather mate with a slug. God i am mad, how long does this sh*t last, forever???
Lizzie60 Posted August 22, 2007 Posted August 22, 2007 I don't know your story but from what I read...my question is this: Why are you still with him? Why don't you kick him out? Why do you put up with him? From what I read, he doesn't give a 'hoot' about you...what the heck do you 'owe' him? I wouldn't even care if he goes for the tests or not... he'd be out of my life in a second.
lostboy60645 Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 it doesn't sound like a safe place for you to recover from a most injurious set of circumstances. the fact that he has disrespected you again by not getting the test first thing when the doors of the office opened gives me enough reason to say f-him and kick him out. and this is coming from someone who was kicked out for the same type of thing! lostboy60645 http://www.livingsobriety.blogspot.com
Citizen Erased Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 So the affair is out in the open and he is still having regular contact with her? KICK HIM OUT. He has disrespected your marriage, put your health at risk, and yet his is still speaking blatantly to the OW? He is not worth your time. I am so sorry hon this is terrible
FireandIce Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 Why on earth is she still calling and why do you have to put your life on hold two nights a week? I'm sorry but you need to kick him out or tell him to f*** off when he makes you stay away from the phone. Who the hell do they think they are??
PoshPrincess Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 Why on earth is she still calling and why do you have to put your life on hold two nights a week? I'm sorry but you need to kick him out or tell him to f*** off when he makes you stay away from the phone. Who the hell do they think they are?? What more can any of us say? I don't know your story either but I echo everyone's sentiments on here. What the hell are you still doing with this man? Ok, you obviously love him (you really must do to put up with this sh*t), but what he is doing is TOTALLY disrespectful! He is treating you like a complete doormat. Aside from the STI test thing he is still speaking to this woman, and doing it so blatantly!!!!! Get rid of him! You deserve 100 times better!
PandorasBox Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 You are allowing this to happen. I did NOT say you caused this, its on him if he has cheated/or still is etc, I'm meaning you're allowing yourself to be his doormat while all this continues to go on by staying with him. Chances are, if you don't get out of this situation, it will continue.
Lostgurl Posted August 24, 2007 Posted August 24, 2007 So, after reading your other thread, I'm confused. Did your husband cheat with his ex wife again? Because I thought that in the other thread, you said he's been apologizing for straying for the past two years.
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