janedoe123 Posted August 21, 2007 Posted August 21, 2007 I realize every situation is different - but I was wondering what anyone's thoughts and feelings are about going NC after a breakup. Or what were your worries or fears about NC? This isn't for any reason, just a general question - I mean most people try to justify reasons to talk to their ex and still have contact with them ... so I was wondering if anyone has any insight as to why we do this ..
Mary3 Posted August 21, 2007 Posted August 21, 2007 I realize every situation is different - but I was wondering what anyone's thoughts and feelings are about going NC after a breakup. Or what were your worries or fears about NC? This isn't for any reason, just a general question - I mean most people try to justify reasons to talk to their ex and still have contact with them ... so I was wondering if anyone has any insight as to why we do this .. NC is for YOU. It is designed to help you heal from Not Contacting your former partner. While some think NC is a * game * it is NO game. Its for you and only you. To heal and gain your self respect. To not react through pain by saying something desperate like " I still love you, please take me back ". It ends up making you pathetic because they don't give a horses arse about how you are feeling, how lonely it is for you, how painful it is for you. They only care about THEM. Please do NC
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