kvq Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 Okay so I am interested in this girl I work with and recently I have been givin little help by some other girls where I work. They were talking me up to her and one reported back to me that the girl I am interested in thinks I am "cute and nice." One thing I want to know... arnt babies cute? We are still in school and this is taking place at work so the talk isnt going to be too deep but still! Anyway, before all of this talk up and gossip, I alwas got a weird feeling whenever we made eye contact, and especially when she smiles at me. I remember two instances which make me think she might be interested in me. We were standing and talking about something and she decided to stand about 5 inches away from me, shoulder to shoulder. When we turned to talk to eachother while discussing what to do, it was obviously akward, but I know I liked it Another instance i when I went to ask where something was and when she gave me the obvious answer we laughed and then she grabbed my upper arm. Not just slapped it but actualy grabbed it. Again, not that I didnt welcome it I just hope this works out, and while I know we are young, my grandparents met before they could drive so you never know. I am hoping that we end up being together for a long time. I know i dont just want her body, when I see her the feeling I get is totally different than watching miss america or seeing some good looking girl at the beach. Not even close actually. Could this be love? That is if she even accepts my invitation to lunch. Thats probably critical :-P
ca2zs Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 Could this be love? That is if she even accepts my invitation to lunch. Thats probably critical :-P It could very well be, but it could also be infatuation, if you both like each other, try hanging out more often, maybe something will happen. But take my advice when I say, don't ever think that you want to be with someone the rest of your life until you fully know them, you could hang out with her more and figure out that you hate her guts because she watches too much MTV. But who knows, I hope all goes well for you
Author kvq Posted August 20, 2007 Author Posted August 20, 2007 It could very well be, but it could also be infatuation, if you both like each other, try hanging out more often, maybe something will happen. But take my advice when I say, don't ever think that you want to be with someone the rest of your life until you fully know them, you could hang out with her more and figure out that you hate her guts because she watches too much MTV. But who knows, I hope all goes well for you Ha thanks. I dont know what it is. I hope I am not infatuated with anyone! And for the record I like to watch Rob and Big on MTV! If this helps, I am not constantly thinking about her and I am able to functional normally as before I even met her. Its just when we are with eachother for the most part. Every now and then I try to think of some reason to go talk to her
SnuggleBunny Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 Okay so I am interested in this girl I work with and recently I have been givin little help by some other girls where I work. They were talking me up to her and one reported back to me that the girl I am interested in thinks I am "cute and nice." One thing I want to know... arnt babies cute? We are still in school and this is taking place at work so the talk isnt going to be too deep but still! ahahhaha "aren't babies cute" ahahaha I said the same exact thing to a woman who told me her son thought I was "cute" Anyway how old are you?
Author kvq Posted August 20, 2007 Author Posted August 20, 2007 I am eighteen. The message would be too short if I only typed 18.
SnuggleBunny Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 I am eighteen. The message would be too short if I only typed 18. You are a baby!! If she said you were cute, thats a good thing. My personal opinion is you are infatuated. Do you talk to her often?
Author kvq Posted August 20, 2007 Author Posted August 20, 2007 When I can. She is new and this all unfolded in about 1 weeks time, the other people getting involved and such. I of course have known her for longer than a week. I think I met her for the first time a month ago. I think that I really want to get to know her, and hope that it will work out. I mean personally Im not that interested in dating for fun, rather dating to find the one. If you know what I mean. Of course we are going to have fun, but if it came to it I am looking for a relationship with someone. I guess it might be that when I think of the perfect girl to be with, she fits pretty close as far as from what I can tell. It is true that I dont know her well enough to decide on the issue, but from what I can tell she is really awsome. And thinking about it if she isnt interested ill be let down but I will move on. Im not a crazy person and I respect people
Author kvq Posted August 20, 2007 Author Posted August 20, 2007 I looked up infatuation at a psychology website and got this: The answers, and the courage to face the facts is the key to making the determination. In infatuation, your gaze, your thoughts and maybe your world revolves around someone. You have blinders on. It seems that all the world pales in comparison to this person?s looks, talents, intelligence, creativity, etc. What you might not see by keeping the blinders on, what can be serious flaws in any relationship, are the destructive traits and behaviors that degrade self esteem and cause some pretty negative effects on one?s choices and decisions. My life hasnt changed at all really exceptt that I actualy have plans on hopefully doing something with a member of the opposite sex instead of sitting in my friends basement plaing music waiting for the pizza to arrive so we can talk about how we are never going to find a girl friend I dont really think she is some god like creature in the sense that she is better than everyone. I think she does a poor job completing this one task every time she has to do it. I always end up going over to her to point out what she forgot I cant quite pin down what exactly it is I like about her. Thats why I posted here
Trialbyfire Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 Before you fall in love and create this whole life together, why not ask her out and get to know her? If she turns you down, the worst case scenario is that you will be sitting in your friends' basement, listening to music, anxiously waiting for pizza. Oh wait, that's what you're doing now. No risk, no return. Good luck.
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