Author SnuggleBunny Posted August 20, 2007 Author Posted August 20, 2007 Im pretty sure he became uninterested and then figured he could avoid any trouble by breaking contact because he knew he was moving soon anyway. When you came calling he probably didnt want to deal with anything so he acted like he was still your friend and everything was cool he was just busy and then once he moved, he was free and never needed to call back. yeh ok maybe but what was the point of him calling me 10 mins before he walked out the door on his last day to ask me when can he call me? and that he will see me soon?
ca2zs Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 I swear I think I am cursed and I am not just saying that. Don't get me wrong- I attract guys all the time. I am not just trying to toot my own horn but I happen to be a very attractive woman and very sweet person. No one that knows me can understand why I can't get a guy to ask me out on a date. If you are anxious to be in love with someone, you have to start looking yourself, you can't rely on other people to make those decisions for you. Think optimistically
Author SnuggleBunny Posted August 20, 2007 Author Posted August 20, 2007 If you are anxious to be in love with someone, you have to start looking yourself, you can't rely on other people to make those decisions for you. Think optimistically I have tried to think like that but I always seem to fail. Its just weird to me how everyone I know around me gets what they want and I never do. I know- poor me ( I just better get used to being single
ca2zs Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 I have tried to think like that but I always seem to fail. Its just weird to me how everyone I know around me gets what they want and I never do. I know- poor me ( I just better get used to being single It may seem that everyone around you has something that you don't, when you really want something that other people you know have. But certain things for different people come and go at different times in their lives. Maybe for you, it just hasn't happened yet, but it will.
Author SnuggleBunny Posted August 20, 2007 Author Posted August 20, 2007 It may seem that everyone around you has something that you don't, when you really want something that other people you know have. But certain things for different people come and go at different times in their lives. Maybe for you, it just hasn't happened yet, but it will. How can you be so sure of that?
kvq Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 yeh ok maybe but what was the point of him calling me 10 mins before he walked out the door on his last day to ask me when can he call me? and that he will see me soon? idk but you know that men can be.. well stupid some times
ca2zs Posted August 20, 2007 Posted August 20, 2007 How can you be so sure of that? I was always taught that good things come to people for a reason, from the earlier posts that you have posted, people think that you are a good person, and I believe that, that would be a reason why something good would come into your life. But things don't come into peoples lives when they want them to come, that just isn't the way things are, as I've said before, good things come to those who wait, believe me your day will come. For now, try to talk to people you like, it may lead to something that you've always wanted.
portableversion Posted August 22, 2007 Posted August 22, 2007 well i don't think it looks good for you, i don't think he's interested 1)your both single if it were me and i was single and interested we would not have made it to 2 months of flirting without an invite to have coffee one on one-- he was probably just being nice and friendly-- if he wanted you he would not have lost your number or forgot about it i assure you-- 2) this is a funny time to live the old norms are out the window maybe another aggressive woman took him up i've hung with the fellas and there is much desire for aggressive women who will come after us to risk the rejection after awhile the fellas tire of it and it hurts to keep getting slapped down (i just wanna be frinds, i have someone already ..... blah blah blah) 3) on the other hand if you want him bad enough track him down now! we got phone books.. 411 direct he couldl be shy or whatever 4) maybe he's not single after all
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