Author chill chic Posted August 23, 2007 Author Posted August 23, 2007 Aren't you the leading founder of the Trinity Club? I'm not even going there beyond saying that the big boy upstairs is probably saying Yesu Chreest, just about now... Haha...must be the natural aversion to milk, you're speaking of. Sheesh, must we all be Goddesses now? That's a lot of pressure to put on the rest of us lowly individuals. You go cc. Be the Goddess you were intended to be. That's what I want to be seen as, with a "glow" around me.
Touche Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 CC, just ignore TBF. She's so far above most of us that it's not even funny! Ok, in all seriousness, I could hug you now! I'm so very proud of your last post and what you expressed there. It does my heart good. You're young enough (and I'm old enough) for you to be my daughter. And I'd be proud to have my daughter say what you've just said. Keep it up, CC. You're worthy! Keep on believing in yourself and your worth.
Author chill chic Posted August 23, 2007 Author Posted August 23, 2007 CC, just ignore TBF. She's so far above most of us that it's not even funny! Ok, in all seriousness, I could hug you now! I'm so very proud of your last post and what you expressed there. It does my heart good. You're young enough (and I'm old enough) for you to be my daughter. And I'd be proud to have my daughter say what you've just said. Keep it up, CC. You're worthy! Keep on believing in yourself and your worth. awww that was really sweet of you to say, thank you whenever I get in this kind of mood I like to listen to music, because it gives me hope and music is ALOT like therapy, it's helped me in the past, thanks to Dave Matthews and now I'm in love with listening to Dido. lol I dunno why I just said that but it's true, it mixes around my "feel good" chemicals in my brain and makes me feel like I can conquer anything, even my worst demons inside & out
Touche Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 awww that was really sweet of you to say, thank you whenever I get in this kind of mood I like to listen to music, because it gives me hope and music is ALOT like therapy, it's helped me in the past, thanks to Dave Matthews and now I'm in love with listening to Dido. lol I dunno why I just said that but it's true, it mixes around my "feel good" chemicals in my brain and makes me feel like I can conquer anything, even my worst demons inside & out It's weird that we're a generation apart yet we like the same music. I'm a big fan of Dido and Dave Matthews too. And yes, music IS therapy of a sort, isn't it?
Author chill chic Posted August 23, 2007 Author Posted August 23, 2007 And it's never to late to change the perception of how people see you right? Even if I might have that reputation? I know, who cares what anyone thinks, but I was just wondering if anyone, not just guys will respect that, or believe me, once I make this miraculous change? I know it's all about ME now, I understand that, but just curious.
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 That will be up to you to find out. If it's a real change, people don't have a choice but to accept it, do they?
Touche Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 And it's never to late to change the perception of how people see you right? Even if I might have that reputation? I know, who cares what anyone thinks, but I was just wondering if anyone, not just guys will respect that, or believe me, once I make this miraculous change? I know it's all about ME now, I understand that, but just curious. It's ok that this is all about you, CC. It's your thread. Nothing wrong with that. And now I'll answer your questions. Number one: NO, it's never too late to change people's perceptions of how they see you. I'll be 46 years old in less than a week and I'm STILL working on that! Really. We grow and change throughout our lives. At least most of us do, anyway. And no, it doesn't matter what your reputation was before. It matters what you do from here on out. Do you see that? THAT'S what really matters, CC. As far as the guys, well they have no choice but to see you in a new light. They have no choice because you have redefined yourself. YOU, decide how it's all going to go down. Not them. You're in control. You have all the power. And they can either get with your program or get lost. It's that simple. And yes, I want ALL the LS ladies to become Goddesses, TBF. It's my personal mission.
Author chill chic Posted August 23, 2007 Author Posted August 23, 2007 It's weird that we're a generation apart yet we like the same music. I'm a big fan of Dido and Dave Matthews too. And yes, music IS therapy of a sort, isn't it? That is funny, yah I've liked their music for awhile now. and yes sometimes I constantly have to listen to music lol. ahhhh my space bar is messed up so it's taking me awhile to write back so...I'll be continuing this tomorrow with all of you. thanks for the support as always, and have a good night everyone
Touche Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 That is funny, yah I've liked their music for awhile now. and yes sometimes I constantly have to listen to music lol. ahhhh my space bar is messed up so it's taking me awhile to write back so...I'll be continuing this tomorrow with all of you. thanks for the support as always, and have a good night everyone Have a great night, CC!
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Thanks alot Touche. Took me forever to find the right avie for the Goddess I want to be. Wrong hair-colour but then, I'm not naturally black-haired anyways.
Touche Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Thanks alot Touche. Took me forever to find the right avie for the Goddess I want to be. Wrong hair-colour but then, I'm not naturally black-haired anyways. :lmao:Ha ha! Very funny, TBF. Fact of the matter is that you're one of the very few true Goddesses on LS. The rest are just Goddesses in the making.
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 :lmao:Ha ha! Very funny, TBF. Fact of the matter is that you're one of the very few true Goddesses on LS. The rest are just Goddesses in the making. Wish that were true but thanks, I could use a boost tonight, not that anything's terribly wrong. I'm slowly learning my Goddessness from you.
Touche Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Wish that were true but thanks, I could use a boost tonight, not that anything's terribly wrong. I'm slowly learning my Goddessness from you. You're so silly. You've been a Goddess all along. Now, CC here is one in the making.
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 You're so silly. You've been a Goddess all along. Now, CC here is one in the making. So, let's work with her and make her the Goddess she wants to be, aura and all. Btw, I'm Diana, Goddess of the Hunt and the Moon, an emblem of chastity.
Touche Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 So, let's work with her and make her the Goddess she wants to be, aura and all. Btw, I'm Diana, Goddess of the Hunt and the Moon, an emblem of chastity. So does that mean you're not into FWBs?
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 So does that mean you're not into FWBs? You know I don't. I like men who honestly care about me.
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 It's the acronym for Friends with Benefits.
underpants Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Btw, I'm Diana, Goddess of the Hunt and the Moon, an emblem of chastity. That is strange. One of Art's baby name was Artemis which I researched was the Greek derivitive of Diana. Interesting. I want to be a Goddess. Alas, I am just an imp.
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 That is strange. One of Art's baby name was Artemis which I researched was the Greek derivitive of Diana. Interesting. I want to be a Goddess. Alas, I am just an imp. Okay, you just freaked me out. Thanks for relating me to a clown baby. Pick a Goddess like I did. I've always liked Diana. She's got a bow and arrow and can use it well. Nothing says love like a pack of baying dogs.
Trialbyfire Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Okay, my patron Goddess is now Athena. Goddess of Heroic Endeavors and Wisdom. unders, please don't find some transcendental link to Art's baby. I don't want to wait for another 30 years before he gets old enough and by that time, Art might think I'm too old for him anyways.
Kamille Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 yes I'm keeping the lock down on my decision to not contact him, because each day that I'm not contacting him, is actually making me stronger, and more independent feeling, I don't know exactly why that is, but it's the truth. I like to have control in situations, alot of situations in my life are like that, and when I lose control, I steadily get worse until I'm vulnerable for disrespect or heartache. I am getting it, I was running on the treadmill earlier thinking that I love being happy that I have support here and good people like you all do actually care about my well being, even though you don't know me in person. So far it's a turning point, and I was thinking also, that yah all these guys that I know or have been with, think I'm "hot" at first and sleep with me, but then I think now that my "hotness" level just went from 10 to about 3 because they might see me as easy, and I DON'T want that, I'm degrading myself and I know it, and I should treat myself better because I'm better than that and I'm selling myself short in alot of ways, and that's not attractive. So I'm beginning to understand that now. I'd rather be seen as a "good catch" than a "good lay" because obviously that's why some of them keep trying to come back in that manner. And I can't keep perceiving myself like that, I'm 4 years away from being 30 and I need to cut the bad habits out before I even think about raising kids in the near future, I have to take care of myself first. I am proud of you too CC! Learn to be selective and to walk away from men who don't treat you the way you want to be treated. I am a trainee-goddess myself. You'll see, the only thing that will happen is that the duds will weed themselves out. And meanwhile, you'll have less drama in your life, your self-esteem will get better and you'll generally feel happier.
underpants Posted August 23, 2007 Posted August 23, 2007 Okay, my patron Goddess is now Athena. Goddess of Heroic Endeavors and Wisdom. unders, please don't find some transcendental link to Art's baby. I don't want to wait for another 30 years before he gets old enough and by that time, Art might think I'm too old for him anyways. Goodness, I was just saying you would make a great 'God'dess mother to that little clown bundle... I do like this new Goddess look for you however. It suits you more. You are wiser and stronger having experienced the hunt and battle. Besides the hair color is right and you have a cool hat. I guess for now I shall be Goddess Underpants. Ruler and protector of the neither regions.
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