Star Gazer Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 oh and I dropped that guy to the bottom of my friend's list, I didn't want to make it too obvious, but it's a subtle slap. or I'll just take him completely off. well I'll give an up date if I do ever hear from him, I'm sure it will be some sarcastic bs though That's like a slap on the wrist. DELETE HIM COMPLETELY.
shadowplay Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 oh and I dropped that guy to the bottom of my friend's list, I didn't want to make it too obvious, but it's a subtle slap. or I'll just take him completely off. well I'll give an up date if I do ever hear from him, I'm sure it will be some sarcastic bs though take him off completely. otherwise you're trying to keep a door of contact open with him in the hopes that he might get in touch.
sb129 Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 Whew. CC, you think so much, you give ME a headache.
Author chill chic Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 sounds like the BEST plan, will do yay I wish we could all have a LS party lol.
Author chill chic Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 Whew. CC, you think so much, you give ME a headache. sorry but yes, literally my mind does not stop thinking, like a mile a minute, it's actually a problem that I've always had, but I can't help it
Touche Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 I agree. Drop him off the friend's list and add him on the shyt list! Yes, an LS Goddess party! Woo Hoo!
Touche Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 sorry but yes, literally my mind does not stop thinking, like a mile a minute, it's actually a problem that I've always had, but I can't help it At least you're thinking. It's those who don't who have the most problems.
sb129 Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 I'm in. My house isn't very good for parties, but I will bring wine if someone else has it at theirs?
Author chill chic Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 I agree. Drop him off the friend's list and add him on the shyt list! Yes, an LS Goddess party! Woo Hoo! awww LOL you guys are so funny! this was a great intervention for me, I really appreciate everyone's care and support. it will continue to get better from here I know it!! I wish I could meet you guys someday and have a real party though
Touche Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 awww LOL you guys are so funny! this was a great intervention for me, I really appreciate everyone's care and support. it will continue to get better from here I know it!! I wish I could meet you guys someday and have a real party though You're a sweet girl, cc. I think that comes through and that's why so many are trying to help. And yes, it will get better. I wish we could meet too. Not sure my ego could handle all the guys looking at you only though!:laugh:
Cobra_X30 Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 I'm in. My house isn't very good for parties, but I will bring wine if someone else has it at theirs? Bring a life vest and you can use my boat! All Ive got is rum and vodka!
Author chill chic Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 You're a sweet girl, cc. I think that comes through and that's why so many are trying to help. And yes, it will get better. I wish we could meet too. Not sure my ego could handle all the guys looking at you only though!:laugh: thanks for the kind words Touche and I'm very thankful that people are behind me on this, that's what I need, some encouragement to be better and believe in myself, so from here on out, it will be better. and if I have to come back on here and tell you guys about another guy, then at least I know what will be in my best interest if I don't see it myself at first. lol about the guy part, nah it's not all that it's cracked up to be
Touche Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 thanks for the kind words Touche and I'm very thankful that people are behind me on this, that's what I need, some encouragement to be better and believe in myself, so from here on out, it will be better. and if I have to come back on here and tell you guys about another guy, then at least I know what will be in my best interest if I don't see it myself at first. lol about the guy part, nah it's not all that it's cracked up to be Yes it IS! I know from past experience. (I don't get out much anymore.) And yes, come back whenever you need to. No one will hold it against you. By the way, you're welcome. I meant it.
Kamille Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 Party? did anyone mention a party? I make killer mojitos! Funny, I was thinking about all you goddesses last night and how much fun it would be to meet you all.
fray718 Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 You wouldn't ever let a jerk-o hurt someone you love, right? Well then, I think you should implement a dating moratorium. Do not date anyone or flirt with anyone that would suggest you're interested in them for at least 6 months. I'm dead serious. Get to know YOURSELF. Fall in love with YOURSELF. Once you do that, you won't ever let another jerk-o hurt someone you love - yourself. SG, this is exaclty what I'm doing right now!! And it's awesome!! It's nice to just have some time to focus on myself and other things in my life aside from boys. CC, I think you should do the same. It will be good therapy for both of us
Author chill chic Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 Yes it IS! I know from past experience. (I don't get out much anymore.) And yes, come back whenever you need to. No one will hold it against you. By the way, you're welcome. I meant it. well I'll see how it goes from here on out, when I go out and I'm around guys, especially with my new "aura" I'll still be here, I'll never leave!
Author chill chic Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 Party? did anyone mention a party? I make killer mojitos! Funny, I was thinking about all you goddesses last night and how much fun it would be to meet you all. and ya know, I've never had a mojito, I'm usually a bacardi & diet girl on occassion I'll do the martinis, margaritas or anything that's fruity
Author chill chic Posted August 27, 2007 Author Posted August 27, 2007 SG, this is exaclty what I'm doing right now!! And it's awesome!! It's nice to just have some time to focus on myself and other things in my life aside from boys. CC, I think you should do the same. It will be good therapy for both of us yah I'm looking forward to the much needed therapy, I think I'm gonna rent a movie tonight, sounds fun hey speaking of which, can anyone recommend a good relationship movie, or self help movie or something of what I've been going through? that would be neat.
Cobra_X30 Posted August 27, 2007 Posted August 27, 2007 yah I'm looking forward to the much needed therapy, I think I'm gonna rent a movie tonight, sounds fun hey speaking of which, can anyone recommend a good relationship movie, or self help movie or something of what I've been going through? that would be neat. Down with Love! Music and Lyrics was ok... I cant think of anything else! Dang I better brush up on my girl movies...
Author chill chic Posted August 28, 2007 Author Posted August 28, 2007 Down with Love! Music and Lyrics was ok... I cant think of anything else! Dang I better brush up on my girl movies... hmm..I'll have to look that one up thanks for the suggestion one of my favs is called "life or something like it" with angelina jolie. I watched it when I was trying to get over that baseball FWB guy of mine. it was eerily similar to my relationship with him. it's a good movie!
shadowplay Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 ^Say Anything. I don't know how helpful it will be to your particular situation, but it's my favorite romantic drama. John Cusack was such a cutie when he was young.
Star Gazer Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 Love Actually and/or The Holiday - not about your situation, but still good.
Author chill chic Posted August 28, 2007 Author Posted August 28, 2007 ok ok ok....correct me if I'm wrong...or stop me from doing it..hehe.. but ooohhhh I want sooooooo bad to say something to him... ok in an email to me before, I called him on thinking about sex, like nonstop, and he agreed, even when he called himself a pig sarcastically. so I wanna say something like "you're right, you don't lie, you do seem to think about it often....be real" ok lol I just kinda laughed at that, maybe writing it out to myself is better
Author chill chic Posted August 28, 2007 Author Posted August 28, 2007 Love Actually and/or The Holiday - not about your situation, but still good. oh I LOVE The Holiday!! It's a great movie and the music is amazing. I'll have to find out about Love Actually, never heard of it.
Touche Posted August 28, 2007 Posted August 28, 2007 ok ok ok....correct me if I'm wrong...or stop me from doing it..hehe.. but ooohhhh I want sooooooo bad to say something to him... ok in an email to me before, I called him on thinking about sex, like nonstop, and he agreed, even when he called himself a pig sarcastically. so I wanna say something like "you're right, you don't lie, you do seem to think about it often....be real" ok lol I just kinda laughed at that, maybe writing it out to myself is better NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! Don't do it! You'll lose Goddess status if you do. I'm just telling you. Yes, Love Actually I thought was cute. Get that.
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