Aloros Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are discussing marriage. 99% of the time, we have the perfect relationship. Several months ago we were out with some friends, getting fairly drunk. One of the girls there had breast implants, and at one point, he put his arm around her and took a photograph of her cleavage. I wasn't pleased...but I was drunk too, so I let it slide. I brought it up later, and he was angry, and told me I shouldn't bring up these past things and that he hadn't ever actually done it. He denied it vehemently, to the point where I thought I might have imagined it. He left his camera at my place this weekend, I took a couple photos with it - and sure enough, there's the picture of her cleavage. Should I just let it go? It makes me angry that he denies it ever happened, and yet I know it will lead to another big fight if I bring it up, with him accusing me of being jealous and insecure.
Lishy Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 No, don't let it go Show him and shame him! I know he was drunk but he acted like you was lying so show him the proof!
directx Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 No, you know what? Guys should know how to keep their hands to themselves and not paw all over a girl to get a cleavage picture, especially in front of their steady girlfriend. I think what he did was totally inappropriate
Lishy Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 No, you know what? Guys should know how to keep their hands to themselves and not paw all over a girl to get a cleavage picture, especially in front of their steady girlfriend. I think what he did was totally inappropriate Hear Hear!!!!
directx Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 Thanks lishy! I mean, if you want to see boobs of strange women, that's what the internet is for!
Lishy Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 Thanks lishy! I mean, if you want to see boobs of strange women, that's what the internet is for! Exactly! Why do it in front of her when he can do it behind her back, infront of his pc with his trousers round his ankles? On a serious not tho, wave that pic infront of his face and ask if it would be acceptable for you to drape yourself over and take a pic of a random mans lunch box and then call him a liar for calling you out on it!
directx Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 Exactly! Why do it in front of her when he can do it behind her back, infront of his pc with his trousers round his ankles? On a serious not tho, wave that pic infront of his face and ask if it would be acceptable for you to drape yourself over and take a pic of a random mans lunch box and then call him a liar for calling you out on it! Well, you don't have to do it behind her back! Just shout 'Hey honey, its internet porn time! Wanna join me?' And I do like the 'lunchbox' idea!
Lishy Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 I think the OP needs to ask herself how he would react if she did the same thing infront of him!
davinne01 Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 Um well, you know I must ad my two cents, my little male point of view. So many guys cut out on there girlfriends these days it's like damn is anybody faithful any more. I can't tell you not to be concerned, it maybe nothing it may be. One thing for sure a man will be a man. I know I date them....lol, plus I am one. Maybe he was just being a man, some mean look, but don't touch. so he could have just be looking that's a part of life, and if you trust your friend then you may have nothing to worry about, but something like that is always iffy. Let it go for now, but keep your eyes open. Because if he could lie about something you know & have proof that took place, then he is very much likely to be lying or will lie about other things. Little tip, when a man is doing something he always tries to keep the heat off himself by blaming you, saying stuff like he said your being in secure, and so forth. These days you have to keep you eyes and ears open baby girl 4real.
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