itslife Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 ok this is like one of those love friend things so i guess i put it in here lol...i like this girl thats a friend and we talk every night but can u help me with some lines so i can make her melt...i tell her things everyday and things that come from the heart but sometimes it comes out wrong like sometimes when she says somethin like i love you i say thx(matters what shes says)or i say it back and shes like cant you say anything else thx hey srry can some1 move this to lovers and friends threat i think this is the wrong area thx
Yamaha Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 Stop being her confident if you want to become her lover. I'm assuming the "I love you" talk is referring to platonic love. She needs to see you as a man and not a buddy if you expect to move it forward.
Author itslife Posted August 19, 2007 Author Posted August 19, 2007 thx man but like its not i love u she likes that, but i mean things like when she says ur amazing and stuff like that. I dont know what to say back..i need something to tell her to melt her ..couse when she says your amazing, thats when i dont know what to say i like freeze up or something and cant think of anything to say back
DevilPenguinPunx Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 Sounds like your stuck in the friend zone. If you talk to her everyday and talk with her about everything, that just screams friend zone. I been through that and it's no easy task. Unless you constantly flirt with her, nothing is really going to make her "melt" and make her become yours. If you have other friends to hang out with, hang out with them and if she calls, you don't really have to answer it. You have a life outside of her, so live it. Just keep her touch with her now and then and don't talk for a long time on the phone. You got to remember the thing with girl and guy friends is that girls don't want to risk a friendship by getting more involved than what it already is. However, if you talk to her less and hang out with her less, then it becomes different. Putting some space between you two not only makes her miss you, but also makes her think about other things like more than friends relationship. Or you can always just be honest with her and tell her your feelings for her and see what happens.
Author itslife Posted August 21, 2007 Author Posted August 21, 2007 o haha dude thx that helped..na im gonna ignore her and **** for now and hang out with every1 else..i aint gonna tell her how i feel couse shes like depressed bout her last bf and im gonna give her some space then maybe ill come out with it
DevilPenguinPunx Posted August 21, 2007 Posted August 21, 2007 Sounds like a plan. Remember, don't ignore her completely. You can answer some of her calls, but just remember to keep it short. Since she's depressed about her last bf, it may be wise to not make a move for a while. Really depends on how long ago the breakup was. Anyway, hope it works out for you.
Yamaha Posted August 21, 2007 Posted August 21, 2007 Sounds like your stuck in the friend zone. If you talk to her everyday and talk with her about everything, that just screams friend zone. I been through that and it's no easy task. Unless you constantly flirt with her, nothing is really going to make her "melt" and make her become yours. If you have other friends to hang out with, hang out with them and if she calls, you don't really have to answer it. You have a life outside of her, so live it. Just keep her touch with her now and then and don't talk for a long time on the phone. You got to remember the thing with girl and guy friends is that girls don't want to risk a friendship by getting more involved than what it already is. However, if you talk to her less and hang out with her less, then it becomes different. Putting some space between you two not only makes her miss you, but also makes her think about other things like more than friends relationship. Or you can always just be honest with her and tell her your feelings for her and see what happens. Not to be a party pooper but this rarely works. If she isn't romantically attracted to you keeping your distance might make her miss you some but she still won't want a physical relationship. I would date other girls to find romance.
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