Newly married and just discovered my husband has a gold Adult Friend Finder account..

[Capricciosa]

 

But since you said you are up for 3somes, then there is nothing for you to complain about.

 

 

I think this is entirely besides the point. Consent between the three is different than him cheating. It's like you're saying she deserves being lied to and betrayed.

[bish]

I think this is entirely besides the point. Consent between the three is different than him cheating. It's like you're saying she deserves being lied to and betrayed.

 

No...I'm saying that she wouldn't mind having sex with other people....but is complaining about his adult account. Doesn't make sense whatsoever.

[whichwayisup]

Consent between the three is different than him cheating

 

It is, but the problem with 3-somes is, it opens the door to other things LIKE cheating. It happens all the time.

[Mr. Lucky]

we argued/cried/discussed the facts for sometime and he ended up saying "well I think you're right... I don't know if I can control my so called serial cheating," and proceeded to start booking me a one-way ticket to Australia next Thursday. I stopped him and said I wanted to work this out...

Am I the only one that thinks that scenario is strange? Not only doesn't he fight to keep your relationship intact, he says he "doesn't know" if he can control his cheating and then kicks you to the curb by booking you a ticket out of the country? If there was any doubt how important you or your relationship is to him, he just gave you the answer ! Whether you want to work it out or not isn't going to matter in light of his indifference. He just doesn't care...

 

Mr. Lucky

[hot123]

that is exactly what happened with my husband (minus the gold ball) lol and i can tell you we are now divorced 3 mos now...the aff thing was only the beginning of a zillion lies.hope you have a better outcome!