Cecilie Posted December 30, 1999 Posted December 30, 1999 I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. We're very close and loving, I get along with his family well and he likes my family. We don't live together because I don't believe in that, but we do something together every day. He's a beautiful, wonderful man. The problem is that I just cannot tell him I love him. I feel it in my heart, and he knows that, but I am afraid to say the words. I always thought people threw the term around very loosely and I am not one who likes to say things she doesn't mean. I am always very honest with him, but the closest thing I can get out of my mouth is "you know how I feel about you." Is there something wrong with me? Do I just not love him? I feel it so much in my heart, can that be infatuation still?
Joe Posted December 31, 1999 Posted December 31, 1999 So you say you have problems saying you love him? No problem, just write it out on a card or something and give it to him. That way you don't actually have to say it, yet he'll know how you feel. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. We're very close and loving, I get along with his family well and he likes my family. We don't live together because I don't believe in that, but we do something together every day. He's a beautiful, wonderful man. The problem is that I just cannot tell him I love him. I feel it in my heart, and he knows that, but I am afraid to say the words. I always thought people threw the term around very loosely and I am not one who likes to say things she doesn't mean. I am always very honest with him, but the closest thing I can get out of my mouth is "you know how I feel about you." Is there something wrong with me? Do I just not love him? I feel it so much in my heart, can that be infatuation still?
Guest Posted January 2, 2000 Posted January 2, 2000 I know how you feel on the issue of saying I love you. It is used loosly and it seems you want to make sure that you honestly mean it when you say it and I have to say that when you feel you actually mean it you'll be able to say it. Until then just show him you love him. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months. We're very close and loving, I get along with his family well and he likes my family. We don't live together because I don't believe in that, but we do something together every day. He's a beautiful, wonderful man. The problem is that I just cannot tell him I love him. I feel it in my heart, and he knows that, but I am afraid to say the words. I always thought people threw the term around very loosely and I am not one who likes to say things she doesn't mean. I am always very honest with him, but the closest thing I can get out of my mouth is "you know how I feel about you." Is there something wrong with me? Do I just not love him? I feel it so much in my heart, can that be infatuation still?
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