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Did I pursue her the right way?


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I have a job that requires me to go to customers homes, and do installations there, each house lasting about 10 minutes. Recently, at one house I met this girl and we clicked really good with each other. I didn't say anything to her when I was with her, but I did go back there later and got her number from her mom (was her parents house). Over the next few days I called and got no answer and then one time I got the secretary for the home business her parents run. At that point I decided to give up trying to reach her by phone. I went back to the house a few days later in hopes of getting a different phone # or email address but no one was home. Finally, as a last resort, I left an envelope in the mailbox with her name on it. The note in it was very brief, just told her who I was, and asked her to call or email me. I didn't even mention anything about asking her out on a date for fear of someone else opening it and reading it. So I guess my question is (for the ladies), if this happened to you, and you also thought the guy was nice and someone you would like to go out with, would you respond to the note and call or email him back. I was getting the impression from her that she also liked me. I'm starting to wonder if she thought the note thing was too creepy, or, since me being the man, she is expecting me to keep trying to reach her. I'm starting to lose hope, it's been almost 2 days since I left the note, and still no email or phone call. :(

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Although she liked you, you lost her by doing that way!!

your first mistake was getting a phone number through parents. 2nd mistake was leaving an envelope.

Maybe she thought you were cute but now she would think you are creepy, shy , can't talk to girls and so on.........

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