ninja657 Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 i am a freshmen in high school and i have been really lonely lately. sure i have lots of friends but i want a girlfriend and i am kinda sorta shy at trying to find one:o. i just can't work up the courage to go up and ask a girl to get to know me. i know a LOT of people in high school and if i don't know them they know my brother so they know me. My brother has lot of enemies and i don't want those enemies... high school starts in less than a week so please reply quickly.
norajane Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 Don't go up and ask girls if they want to get to know you. Smile at them, chat with them, flirt with them, compliment them. Give yourself some time for YOU to get to know THEM. And then turn on your smile toward a girl who is friendly toward you, not the ones who ignore you and don't look you in the eye with a smile of their own. And have fun!
yergawd Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 NoraJane is right. When you're walking down the hall looking for a GF you're going to put off the vibe of a wolf on the prowl. Instead look to be the go to guy. Put out the vibe that if people want to have fun they should come to you. Get a bunch of people together all the time wether you are going to hang out at a park, hit the mall, whatever. Don't start by asking girls out. Raise their attraction for you let them know that you'd love for them to hang out but if they don't who cares because you have all kinds of people going already (don't say this just have the who cares if you're there attitude). Get a huge group of people guys and girls. Chat and joke with everyone be the life of the party, the leader of the pack. This is how you meet girls worth your time. By doing this you will be able to "interview" them to find a girl you are actually interested in, instead of just meeting the criteria of being female. GOOD LUCK YOU'LL BE FINE:)
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