Dani_babii Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 well i recently got out of a 2 year long distance relationship, about 2 or 3 weeks after the brake up i met this really great guy, we were both pretty much in the same boat and trying to move on from our exs. so we started seeing each other, it was hard at first letting go of my ex but it got easier when me and my ex started really being good friends again. This guy knows exactly how i feel about everything, my ex, him, our relationship and he keeps saying he wants to be with me in the beginning if felt like he really did, but now not so much even though he says he does, then i read something on his myspace that made me think he really is still thinking about his ex.. i just dont know what to do, i really like this guy, hell i love him, hes already told me that he loves me.. but im not ready to get hurt again.. what should i do?? any advice?? Thxs, Dani
Mezzi Posted August 18, 2007 Posted August 18, 2007 Hi, what exactly did you see on his myspace page that has caused you to change your mind about him?
cr8sea Posted August 18, 2007 Posted August 18, 2007 how long have you been dating this guy for?? if its less than at least three months and he already said he loves you you gotta be careful. Those super hot men who are all up on their girls in the beginning are the ones that drop them out of nowhere...they're impulsive and its a big red flag (believe me, experience talking!)
Author Dani_babii Posted August 19, 2007 Author Posted August 19, 2007 i though it was too soon but idk it felt right, but im having mixed feelings about what i want, the last few weeks my ex and i have gotten extremely close and have been talking about a lot of stuff, even about me moving there when i graduate college and starting our relationship back up, we really do want each other, hes still the most important thing to me and my true love, but the distance got to be way to much for both of us. Honestly he is what i really want but i dont graduate for another year so do i date this guy til then, i wanna have fun but i dont wanna hurt him n in the end i already know this guy isnt gonna be "the one" i really like him but my ex is the one i want to end up with again. im going to visit my ex in 2 weeks with my cousin and i dont know whats going to happen, but i know the spark and connection is there, i love him with everything i have in me. so any advice on what i should do?
Kengne Posted August 19, 2007 Posted August 19, 2007 if the distance was the only reason you two broke up then i say let go of the new guy and focus on the ex life is too short, tomorrow is guaranteed to no one u could date around thinkin your ex wil BE there a year from now he might meet smo else or die *knock on wood* life is too short to wait - just go after what you want and make the **** work Good luck! K.
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