Confused5433 Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 Guys help me out here. I would really like to know what make a women totally irresistable and desired. From looks, personality, smiles, etc. share it all. Some guys said a quiet mysterious girl is more attractive than a outgoing pesonality. There has to be some common traits that makes you go crazy about a girl. I'll give you my example as far as men, 3 traits that make any girl loose it: 1. Confidence 2. Charisma 3. Looks Your turn?
directx Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 I can't sum it up. I dont have a type. I the girls I fall for are all totally different. I know what I dont like: Weak, whiney, and needy. What I do like: Outspoken and not shy to get pissed off I like girls with a great hair look. The best is when a girl wears her hair different with no prodding whatsoever. She does puts in pony tail one day or lets it hang the next. For some reason, I LOVE that.
halfarock Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 It is chemistry. I’ve thought about this quite a bit. It just occurs to me that every woman that I have found to be irresistible, that there is no real pattern, that just with certain women, there is just something. We just get along really well, something just clicks.
sh2000 Posted August 18, 2007 Posted August 18, 2007 As far as being attracted to a girls personality, the only advice I can offer is to just be yourself. I wouldn't be attracted to a girl trying to be different simply because she thinks she'll attract male attention that way. That would just turn me off.
Tony T Posted August 18, 2007 Posted August 18, 2007 I will say: It's always extremely depressing and disappointing when a woman who is very attractive turns out to be an annoying bitch! Men tend to ascribe all kinds of positive traits onto women they find attractive, for whatever reason. I have to know a woman for at least 20 years before I can be sure she is attractive or not. There is nothing so fast as an unadulterated selfish, self centered, closed minded bitch to make a stiff one go limp!
solo_flyer Posted August 18, 2007 Posted August 18, 2007 When a woman clearly enjoys being who she is and has lots of pride in herself, that pushes her right up the attractiveness scale. Even if she does not have that nicely proportioned body, I find that these types tend to come 'under the radar' and grow on me over time. Also, if the woman shows attraction for me, that instantly makes me think positive things about her.
monkey00 Posted August 18, 2007 Posted August 18, 2007 Nothing is more sexy than a confident woman (not to the point that she's a b*tch or demanding), but the point that she doesnt need to play games or create drama to make things work. If she had a great time on a date then tell me, if she's interested - then show interest. Playful teasing is also attractive....
Saxis Posted August 21, 2007 Posted August 21, 2007 Nothing is more sexy than a confident woman (not to the point that she's a b*tch or demanding), but the point that she doesnt need to play games or create drama to make things work. If she had a great time on a date then tell me, if she's interested - then show interest. Playful teasing is also attractive.... Agreed! For physical attraction, it definitely starts with a beautiful smile, and then I like hair and curves! Things to avoid: superficial, snobby, needy. Above all else, she has to return the favor. That is, I have to be just as irresistable to her. If not, the attraction can still be there, but it's more frustrating than it's worth.
Trialbyfire Posted August 21, 2007 Posted August 21, 2007 Okay. I'm going to take a shot at this: She's hawt...
pegasus from asda Posted August 22, 2007 Posted August 22, 2007 A smile that lights up a room , confidence , and nice hair , I think most men love great hair (maybe its my one and only fetish ) .
Geoffrey Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 1. Intelligence. What a marvellous thing to behold! 2. Carries herself well in any situation, brings out the best in others too. 3. Poise. Looks good at every opportunity. 4. Gracious to others in all circumstances, good or otherwise. 5. Takes care of herself - physically and mentally - and it shows. 6. Uses words to express her feelings - not tantrums! I could probably add a few more, but I might price myself right out of the market!
Yosef Posted September 10, 2007 Posted September 10, 2007 As far as everyone's saying, girls shouldn't be: Cocky Troublesome Irresponsible Real B****es Whiney As for my personal preferences: 1) Respectful of others. What I really like in a girl is if she is selfless and is willing to forgive those who don't seem to deserve forgiveness. 2) Under-the-skin beauty. I don't want a girl to impress me by wearing make up or fancy clothes or revealing clothes. She needs to be kind and gentle. 3) One who is accepting of under-the-skin beauty in regards to me. I don't want a girl to want to get to know me because im good looking, and I don't want a girl to keep distance from me because im unappealing. 4) Someone with perseverence. I don't want a girl in my life who doesn't want to work with a relationship before giving up. 5) And of course, me being christian, a woman who is respectful and accepting that I am of the religious community and does nothing to inhibit it.
directx Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 Giving more thought, a woman that I can be my self with and accept the horrible side of me and past. That's a keeper. And how she treats me as whole seals the deal
iFinix Posted September 11, 2007 Posted September 11, 2007 I'm not one to be picky. All I want is a girl with a nice face, a good personality, a nice person in general, and she must like me back!
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