tupactip Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 long story short i had probs which i have fixed a lillte late in the game and my wife had affair casue of the probs neglect and cleaning house and things to that affect are our probs now that i see them it hard to fix them since she moved in with the other man and doesnt want to be with me at all we have a 2year old daughter what do i need to do to stop pushing her further away like ui hjave done over the past 2 weeks since it started
norajane Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 You might want to post this in the Infidelity forum where others who have had spouses in affairs might give you their insights.
Cobra_X30 Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 long story short i had probs which i have fixed a lillte late in the game and my wife had affair casue of the probs neglect and cleaning house and things to that affect are our probs now that i see them it hard to fix them since she moved in with the other man and doesnt want to be with me at all we have a 2year old daughter what do i need to do to stop pushing her further away like ui hjave done over the past 2 weeks since it started I agree with NJ. But seriously... why do you even want her? She's already gone bro! You didnt clean the house... so she had an affair. I dont think your going to miss this gem!
TudorII Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 Not sure this qualifies as an affair and more like she has just moved on. You need to ask the hard question of does she want to try and work it out or get divorced. Living with another man and not addressing the status of your relationship is not acceptible. Make her pick one and then follow through on it and not leave you in limbo. Take your balls back and fight for what you want or let her go.
Author tupactip Posted August 17, 2007 Author Posted August 17, 2007 the probs was bad with neglect and i was getting very depressed not taking care of myself and things like that there was many probs that i feel like lead to this she doesnt want a divorce but she is not showing any signs of tring to fix things
Darth Vader Posted August 18, 2007 Posted August 18, 2007 Nothing that you did or didn't do forced her to have an affair, that was her choice. She also just wants her cake and eat it too, that's why she doesn't want a divorce, so if it don't work out she'll come back to you, kinda cheap don't you think? I say you make the decision for her, talk to a lawyer about her abandonment, and affair, and get sole custody of the child, lose this chic!
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