dt311unity Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 So the last month has been great with my girl. We took a little break a while ago and ever since we got back together we have had a greater appreciation for each other. Last night she was crabby because she was hungry. Well we were both lazy and couldn't decide what we wanted and ended up just going up to our room and going to bed. Well, she continued to be crabby like it was my fault. Then she starts talking about how this last week has been bad with our relationship. She said it feels like it's getting to be like it was before we took our break. She said I don't look at her the same. So she said she has been feeling unhappy. She said she is tired of doing the same thing all the time. I tell her to come up with new things to do because she doesn't really like to do a lot of things. So I have been doing everything to make her happy. I call her during the day to talk to her real quick inbetween things at work, I leave her little messages on her car in the morning that she gets when she leaves for work after me, I tell her I appreciate her when she does things around the house. Tonight I'm going salsa dancing with her for god's sake. How much more could a girl ask for? I'm a frickin metal head. I don't dance, yet alone salsa dance. But I told her I would give it a shot and be open minded about it. The night before last we were talking about sex and how I wish we had more of it and she said that she has felt really good emotionally so her sexual desire hasn't been as high because she is so satisfied emotionally. Then we have our conversation last night. It's kind of confusing. It's like she keeps track on a weekly basis of how good our relationship is doing. If we have a busy week and don't get to spend a lot of time together then she gets all bent out of shape and wonders if the relationship is going to work. She has her idea in her head that a relationship should be happy all the time, no matter what. I tell her that it's something you need to constantly work on. I don't know if she was just extra crabby because she was hungry or what. I'm not always happy about everything. I wish we had sex more and that she would do more things around the house like laundry, dishes, cleaning. But I don't get mad with her about it or keep track of it or anything. It's just little **** that I don't let get to me, you know? Anyways, let me know what you all think. Ideas, suggestions whatever...
Alexandra-Girl Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 This is a double post. Check your other post for a suggestion. Alex.
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