Capricciosa Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 Well the guy finally called, one week exactly after our date. I was out and he left a message, saying he just got back from the country, didn't have his phone with him, didn't check his messages, it's been a while, and didn't I owe him a cake (i'd told him i like to make cakes--don't ask why, it came up...) I waited a couple of days to call, mostly because I was no longer sure how I felt about him, but finally called back, left a message. Problem is that he's hard to connect with. Doesn't do email, his cellphone always says the voice mail is full, and he has some line at home which I think he told me not to leave messages on because he doesn't have access to them (he has a bizarre living situation). So where was he going to get his messages from while away? I left a message there anyway, and tried to catch him at home a few times, which didn't happen, and I started feeling like I was dialing to much. Anyway, I haven't heard from him since, and I get more and more turned off by these communication difficulties. Should I drop this completely? What does this sound like to people? Thanks in advance.
shockandawed Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 Sounds like he possibly could be hiding something. I have found people I have met or went out with that had communication problems, ie..cell doesn't work at home, computer broken, etc.. were usually playing some sort of game. At best, you are a low priority. I know how frustrating this is, especially when you just want to know where you stand. If you are having this kind of communication difficulty off the bat, chances are it will always be like this. Unless you are a glutton for punishment, I would cut all ties here and move on to someone who actually appreciates you.
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