Jmina Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 Can someone answer this? What is the point in loving someone so much who definetely doesnt love me? does the point even matter? i want to get over my ex. want to move on now. soon as she comes into my head do i jsut think of something else? stop it before it gets to hard? =( please help if you can!!! Jmina
funkybassplayer Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 Ok well loving some1, theres always a point its how you feel regardless of how he feels. Be thankful that you have the ability to feel real love as many cant, and its at this point that your heart is open, and its two way, take love in, take in all whats going on around you, love is nature, animals birds tress air, not just a feeling that you have for a person. Its at times of pian that your heart is open, and this is the time for you to grow as a person, to be stronger and wiser, and know whats right for you. Love yourself, thats the most important.
Author Jmina Posted August 16, 2007 Author Posted August 16, 2007 so i guess if i have that kind of attitude it closes my heart and i have less chance of being happier... it was a fleeting moment... mostly i am happy that i love her. when i think of her and am feeling strong i feel happy. jmina
NorCalDave Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 Ok well loving some1, theres always a point its how you feel regardless of how he feels. Be thankful that you have the ability to feel real love as many cant, and its at this point that your heart is open, and its two way, take love in, take in all whats going on around you, love is nature, animals birds tress air, not just a feeling that you have for a person. Its at times of pian that your heart is open, and this is the time for you to grow as a person, to be stronger and wiser, and know whats right for you. Love yourself, thats the most important. I like this post FBP. It says that while you can love someone with all your heart, if they don't reciprocate it, the world isn't over. There are other things AND PEOPLE to love that we just have to be aware of. I just got home from a WONDERFUL vacation to Yosemite and I felt "in love" while I was there. Not with a person, but with my experience....the weather, my family, the natural waterslides we went on, sleeping under the stars, being with my dad and sister and cousins, surviving a June Bug jumping on me while I was driving....little things like that. I used to get all depressed because I felt that if I didn't have her love, life wasn't worth living. But you know what, life IS worth living, and it's beautiful and wonderful. We just have to have open eyes and an open heart. Love will find us if we let it. I promise you that.
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