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As the eldest male child and of course and will be the unofficial chief of our branch of clan - I have a deelema.

 

I have twenty cousins aged between 10 and 30 and of course about twenty marriages over approximately the next twenty years. I fear that I will fear completely out of the loop because it is highly unlikely that I will not even have a date to any of these weddings and I feel like such a loser because no woman would give me the time of day. Though I am educated, attractive and no how to dance, just shy.

 

Can anyone help with how to deal with this? Anyone else been in this situation of similar?

 

Thanks

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do you have any female friends who'd be happy to escort you to a gathering where she can dance the night away, party til dawn and be in the company of a great looking AND great guy without pressure to perform? That might be the way to go ...

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Um no. nada none nothing. Went to all boys school, played Rugby and then tried dancing and that aint working. So I don't have any female friends and very few friends in the first place. Sux. That is why I give up.

 

"It is like they are ditching me in advance" - Lisa Simpson.

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You can try to find a Russian bride.

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I don't want to get married (at the moment) and I am not that desperate.

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