aries87 Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 I need some help about this guy who I am very interested in. It started a few months back when a coworker noticed him riding by and always looking at me, so I decided to pay more attention to him and see for myself. We work at a very busy airport but not for the same company, so I see him every morning when he comes in. He walks by and then he rides by just about every morning before he heads out for his rounds at the airport. It doesn't matter if he is by himself or with his buddies he will always make eye contact with me. He doesn't have to come by my place on his way out, and actually it is not the most convenient way for him to leave the building. For a while he would even ride back and forth in the building before leaving but not so much in the morning but still in the afternoon. One day he had to bring something around to the counters and when he came up to mine he walked up with his head down,(to me meant he was shy) and I joked about what he had to deliver and he just replied yeah. After this I decided to see how he would respond if I smiled and waved to him one morning. When he walked by a couple of weeks ago I smiled and said hi and he smiled and said hi back and it looked like from where I was that he may have turned a little red. When he walked a little further he turned back and looked at me to see if I was watching, which I was and I waved again. About 15 minutes later he walked back by and I didn't notice him until he was walking in front of me and when I looked he was looking at me and he smiled. I'm thinking these are good signs and I noticed he started coming by a little more often. I decided that everytime he came by that I was going to wave and smile at him and try to get him to not be so shy around me. About a week and half ago I waved as he walked by one morning and he waved back and then later that day he spent two hours just walking and riding by but he never did approach me. I got tired of waiting and decided to give him my number, but finding the time to it myself would be hard since I'm always busy, so I gave it to a friend of mine who has a lot more freedom to walk over to where he rides by, so she gave it to him on Friday and he asked "where is she" and took my number and left. I haven't seen him since then and he hasn't called. The reason I haven't seen him is we both have been off. My question is does it seem like he is into me or am I reading this all wrong? If he is into me then why hasn't he called? I have thought about calling him over and saying something to him like....."Hi, did you get my number?" Then say "well give me a call sometimes". How does this sound? But I don't want to make a move if I am reading him all wrong.
directx Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 If you think this guy is shy and thats the only thing preventing him giving you a call, then i would think of a way to make sure he calls. Because if I think if he broke the ice to call you once, he will be more open. can you think of an legitmate excuse for him to call you besides a date? Or just do what you said: tell him to call you. What are you scared of? Rejection? Big deal. No shame in that
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