Kind of cute

[Michele]

A week after , I was still getting over, the last frienship. I met this cute guy of 23, who seemed very mature for his age, mind you, I'm way older then him.

 

He asked me out,we went out for drinks,and we started kissing. The second date I guess I rushed into it, and well , we made love.

 

Needless to say, I called him, and it seems he was making excuses, saying he had to go to the gym, so I asked him are you brushing me off. He said, no! However, I guess if he doesn't call me anymore, A. I rushed into it. B. He found someone else. C. Not interested anymore.

 

Any advice

[Kate]

Leave him to his silliness. Whether you rushed into it or not, he sounds like he's quite young, regardless of how "mature" you think he is. Men, usually, at that young age will have sex more often than not, whenever given the opportunity. It's happened to most women. It's not your "fault". And, it has absolutely nothing to do with whether you are attractive enough...because you would be. Move on; someone ready for a relationship with you, whether you slept together on the second date or not, will come into your life. Notch it up to experience, I have when I've done it, and you will begin to feel okay about it. Good luck!

A week after , I was still getting over, the last frienship. I met this cute guy of 23, who seemed very mature for his age, mind you, I'm way older then him. He asked me out,we went out for drinks,and we started kissing. The second date I guess I rushed into it, and well , we made love. Needless to say, I called him, and it seems he was making excuses, saying he had to go to the gym, so I asked him are you brushing me off. He said, no! However, I guess if he doesn't call me anymore, A. I rushed into it. B. He found someone else. C. Not interested anymore. Any advice

[R]

You left off one more possibility, D. He's an immature Jerk.

[michele]

You left off one more possibility, D. He's an immature Jerk.

Thanks for your responses. Clean slate again, hope 2000, will be better.