J.LO Posted August 15, 2007 Posted August 15, 2007 Okay..very straight forward, but sometimes hard to answer or understand. How do you really know when a man likes you? Is there certain signs to look for? Flirting techniques?
DanielMadr Posted August 15, 2007 Posted August 15, 2007 He is happy to see you. He calls. He asks you out. He is willing to go on proper dates. He is willing to shag you. He is willing to go on more dates. He accepts your proposal of exclusivity. He propose engagement. He will marry you. He is willing to go out on dates and shag you. He is pushing your wheel chair.
solo_flyer Posted August 15, 2007 Posted August 15, 2007 If he is often looking at you when you are looking somewhere else, that is a very good sign. However if you look at him he may pretend to just look away or be disinterested, especially if he is shy and/or unsure if you would like him in return. Enlist the help of a friend in watching his behaviour because you can't really see this one on your own, especially if he's shy. If he finds excuses totalk to you all the time, that's also a very good clue. (However a shy man will avoid talking to you in almost all situations!) Overall, the main thing is that he behaves differently around you than at other times. That is the biggest giveaway.
Trialbyfire Posted August 15, 2007 Posted August 15, 2007 Lord save me from the shy guy. One teller is that he will blush, when making eye contact. Get close to him and see if he starts to fidget and blush.
maynard Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 i would say that in 99% of cases, if you arent sure if a guy likes you, he doesnt guys are pretty obvious creatures.
charliepapa Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 I thought it would be instinct in a woman that you know before he knows that he likes you.
LN99 Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 Overall, the main thing is that he behaves differently around you than at other times. That is the biggest giveaway. How though can you tell if he is acting differently around you then other times? Your not there other times..... Unless of course you have someone else observe him and give you feedback. Oh yeah.....other ways to tell are -fixing his hair -staring at you and smiling -copying your body language -catching him checking you out -him accidentally brushing up against you or touching you a lot.
Author J.LO Posted August 16, 2007 Author Posted August 16, 2007 The guy isnt really shy..he's aliltle though when it comes to me being there with him. Like, he only wants to say things that make me smile..or laugh..or more interested. Most of the body language that you have mentioned, he does all of them. He flirts, and teases...but how can i show him that I like him more? The reason i ask this things is because there was a guy before him and he gave me every sign you've said and it turned out he didnt want to date me..though he has a gf right now and still tries to hit on me..and much more. Maybe he's lying and really does like me..it seems he does. And after him I was in doubt because I was good at judging mens techniques.
Cobra_X30 Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 LOL... yeah the guy wanted to do a little more than just date you! This new guy... its hard to tell, if he normally isn shy... but is when your around, usually that means something. Just flirt with him like there is no tommorrow and see what he does.
solo_flyer Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 How though can you tell if he is acting differently around you then other times? Your not there other times..... Unless of course you have someone else observe him and give you feedback. Yeah that is the point. Get a friend or two to help you.
uniqueone Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 Okay..very straight forward, but sometimes hard to answer or understand. How do you really know when a man likes you? Is there certain signs to look for? Flirting techniques? When they ask you out....no wait....after they've asked you out five times......no..... What do we mean by "like" here? See, all those signs people have mentioned.....I don't buy them anymore. I had man want me to visit him thousands of miles away. He paid for most things and all that. Did he like me? To a degree I suppose. But the guy left me there...abandoned me. He was in contact with other women while I was visiting. He told me he wanted my technical help while I was there (and it was nothing simple). You would think that someone you've been talking to awhile and had met and who invited you to this romantic place for a week that was far, far away.....you'd think they liked you. But it all depends on WHAT "liking" is to them. Sorry...that's my cynical take on it.....
VIP Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 It's what he does, not what he says, that shows how much he likes you.
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