Borginator Posted August 15, 2007 Posted August 15, 2007 Hey, my current situation is that im in love with a girl (no surprise) and we've been friends for a few months. it wasn't too long ago that i admitted my feelings to her. However, she is "seeing" another guy and very much likes him. But she did admit that I have more to offer over him and the reason why she doesnt wanna be with me is because of my poor history with relationships. What i mean by poor history is that, i am young, i dont hold long-term relationships, and when i want to it doesn't work, i also have the habit of "giving up". But i have strong feelings for her and want to make things work. We have been chatting still recently as friends, but its not the same. Should i give up and wish her all the best with the guy shes seeing? or pursue it further? bearing in mind i don't wanna jeopardize our friendship.
Tyra Posted August 15, 2007 Posted August 15, 2007 I think that you should give it up with her. Reason being because if you're the type that doesn't hold long relationships and you're easy to give up, then she definately knows what's best for her and will look past you. And if she really likes the guy that she is dealing with now, then she's not going to break it off with him to be with you. But you can still be friends with her.
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