shadowplay Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 The guy I'm seeing recently suggested to me he might be bipolar. Apparently it runs in his family and he has some symptoms. I'm just wondering what it entails exactly in terms of a relationship.
84B2 Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 im also curious, the girl i am seeing currently mentioned she has been told by others that she may be bipolar, but she hasnt went to get checked, what is there to watch out for?
solo_flyer Posted August 14, 2007 Posted August 14, 2007 Yeah I dated a bipolar girl once. The main thing is that I learned to recognise days when she was on an emotional 'downswing' and never approached emotionally sensitive topics at that time. On downswing days she was more tired so if she had taken I nap I would know. There were other expressions or combinations of words she would only use when was was feeling especially sensitive, so I just kept things light on those days.
cr8sea Posted August 15, 2007 Posted August 15, 2007 Dated a bp for a month....dealt with him for three years. Its difficult....but not impossible, if both of you love each other. I loved this guy very very much, but he pushed me away, saying i deserved better than him. I still had to deal with him and it was hell to see him go thru depressed periods where he wouldnt sleep during the nite, and sleep all day, skipping work and class (we lived and worked together...i had no escape). And then on his highs he would run around, jumping from buildings and windows, planning motorcycle rides from canada to argentina. He was an amazing guy, but the emotional rollercoaster he put me thru left me scarred to this day. One day he would tell me he loved me....the next he wouldnt even look at me. One night he would chase me thru the buildings were we lived, and the next he would literally leave the room if i walked in. It was pure madness. I would have loved to be with him and helped him thru it all, specially because he wasnt fully diagnosed, so he wasnt getting any treatment. But he didnt allowed me to, so if this person that ur seeing allows you to be there for him, then do it, but be aware it wont be easy. Id do it in a second, if it was with him....but thats just me, because i loved that man and still do.....but im also aware that it would be very painful....specially when he withdraws....so its up to you...and how much you're willing to care and be there for them. However, just because he is bipolar it doesnt mean you must put up with abusive behavior, such as hitting etc. Many people use this disorder to excuse behavior like that, so becareful. Hope that helped....
MikeC Posted August 16, 2007 Posted August 16, 2007 I am in a relationship with a bipolar girl right now. It isn't as bad as you would think. I mean, there are up and down emotions to deal with. Other than that, if you have an open mind, it can be a fun and exciting time for two people. Atleast it is for me.
daily_dreamer Posted August 17, 2007 Posted August 17, 2007 I dated a bi-polar girl about 4-5 years ago and it was not as easy situation. The unique situation I was in was that she refused to seek any treatment whatsoever for her condition. I hope that is not the situation you have to face. If you love the other person, be patient and understanding and the relationship will be fine.
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